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From People-Pleasing to Powerful: Feeling Safe Being Seen on Your Terms with Lyn Delmastro-Thomson


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If you’ve been holding yourself back from being fully seen — online, in your business, or even in your personal life — this episode is going to feel like a warm, powerful permission slip.

I’m joined by Lyn Delmastro-Thomson, a Confident Expression Activator who helps soul-led leaders feel safe being seen so they can stop being “the best kept secret” and start creating the impact and legacy they’re meant for.

In this episode, we dive into:

  • What Lyn does and how she helps her clients feel safe being seen

  • Why women hide their real selves and hold back online, in business, and in life

  • Simple, doable mindset and self-care practices to support your nervous system

  • Why your energy matters just as much as the content you create

  • Both of our journeys from perfectionist people-pleasers to authentically being ourselves

  • How to let go, be yourself, and feel good about it — without “faking it till you make it”

  • How to write captions that sound like YOU (and stop editing your real personality out)

  • Perfectionism as a nervous system pattern — not a personality trait — and what that looked like for us

  • Why entrepreneurship is the biggest self-growth journey you’ll ever go on

  • The pivotal moment that helped Lyn stop hiding in her business and feel like she belonged

  • Combining the “woo” and the work in business, content, and personal growth

  • How embodiment (especially dance!) helps you feel safe being seen — plus our personal stories

  • The importance of getting support and building a community that gets you

  • Our experiences dancing online and how that has evolved over time

  • How to reconnect with yourself and make space for creativity — walks, dancing, shaking, embodiment practices

  • Processing trauma and emotions physically, verbally, and in ways that don’t require over-explaining

  • Getting comfortable being uncomfortable — and finding ways to enjoy every part of your business

  • The energetic modalities Lyn is trained in and how she uses them with clients

    Connect with Lyn on: Instagram and her website!

    Get her Free Gift: The Unapologetic Expression Activation is a pre-visibility audio designed for sensitive, soul-led women who are done hiding, filtering, and second-guessing. DM Lyn “ABBY” on Instagram to gain free access!

    Check out Lyn's Unmuted Program

     

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    FREE RESOURCES: You know I’m here for YOU and your success, boo. And that includes offering a few different free resources to help you get there!

    1. Instagram Audit: This free audit is your chance to get personalized feedback on your profile + content — so you can stop guessing and start showing up in a way that actually feels like YOU and connects with the right people.
    2. The Bold Expression Toolkit - Your no-fluff, full-body yes to showing up online like the powerhouse you are. Think: scroll-stopping Canva templates, juicy content prompts, mindset + embodiment practices, and personalized feedback from a pro — all wrapped in a Notion dashboard designed to help you stop holding back and start saying what you really want to say.
    3. Website Review - Ever wonder how your brand & website is doing? How it compares to others? Or what could make it better? Sign up for a free review that answers these questions and provides design & copy suggestions to increase conversions & connect with your ideal clients more effectively, plus show you how to be more authentic in your online presence.
    4. 5-Day Spark Reset Challenge - To reset your energy & mindset, refocus on your goals, & reignite your spark to show up on socials. Each day, you’ll receive an email with 3 tasks to do that can be done in 30 min or less!
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    6. Check out our website for more ways to work and connect with us!

       

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