Growing Tall Poppies : Thrive After Trauma

From Self-Hatred to Self-Worth: The Nervous System Shift That Changes Everything


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In this week's episode I’m joined by Ramona Kossowan — Gentle Trauma Release Practitioner, fitness professional, and food relationship coach — who shares her deeply personal journey from self-hatred to self-worth.

Together, we unpack how trauma, life experiences, and long-held survival patterns shape the way we feel about ourselves….often without us even realising it.

✨ What We Explore

In this powerful conversation, we dive into:

  •  How self-hatred can form quietly beneath the surface 
  •  The impact of childhood experiences, environments, and emotional safety 
  •  What “muscle armouring” and dissociation actually look like in the body 
  •  Why you can appear confident… but not feel at ease within yourself 
  •  The nervous system patterns that keep you stuck in self-protection 
  •  Why midlife often activates unresolved trauma
  •  The connection between trauma, body image, and food noise
  •  Why midlife and life transitions often bring these patterns to the surface 
  •  How gentle trauma release creates real, lasting change 

✨ Practical Takeaways

Ramona shares simple, accessible ways to begin:

  •  Engaging your senses to bring your body out of survival mode 
  •  Creating small rituals that signal safety
  •  Moving your body in ways that build strength and connection
  •  Shifting your relationship with food from control → trust 

✨ Who This Episode Is For

This episode is for you if:

  •  You’re in midlife and feel like you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way
  •  You’ve done a lot of inner work… but still don’t feel fully at ease 
  •  Your relationship with your body or food feels harder than it should 
  •  You’re navigating a big life transition and questioning what’s next
  •  You want to feel confident, connected, and at home in yourself again

✨ Connect with Ramona & Resources Mentioned

  •  Ramona’s websites:
     👉 Ramonakcoaching.com
    👉 gentletraumacoach.com 
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Linked In
  • YouTube    
  • Free Resources:
  • Food Archetypes 
  • Grief
  • Parts Reflection Guide

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Intro and Outro music: Inspired Ambient by Playsound.

Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational purposes only. It is not intended to be deemed or treated as psychological treatment or to replace the need for psychological treatment.

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Growing Tall Poppies : Thrive After TraumaBy Dr Nat Green

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