I am not an expert, but I am in the heart of this stage of life. How do we live to our fullest potential in the last third of life? With careers winding down, and children having long ago left home, we are faced sometimes for the first time in our ever-productive lives with the most basic questions. What is the most important? What is the essence of my life? Who am I becoming?
This podcast episode is a reflection about living into the last third of life. Baby boomers are retiring at an average of 10,000 per day; over the next 20 years, an estimated 70 million boomers will stop working. Those over age 65 are the fastest-growing age demographic in the United States.
The Gift of Years can be a Pilgrimage.
I have been inspired to see this stage of life as a Pilgrimage. If we re-envision aging as a pilgrimage and ourselves as pilgrims, it can imply a life of meaningful intent and spiritual intensity, a far more vital way of looking at the experience of the Last Third of life.
How do we become pilgrims, how do we understand living in our Last Third as the most important pilgrimage of our lives? The decision to go on a pilgrimage is uniquely our own.
As the Psalmist wisely says: “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” Psalm 90: 12
Two Foundations For This Pilgrimage
1. Be Grateful For The Gift of Years
The last third of life, from age 60 on up, doesn’t have to be feared. When viewed from a Christian perspective, this season of life can be meaningful, endurable … and even joyful.
These years can provide new adventures and challenges we never would have dreamed of. Being older can come as a gift, a joy and a blessing far exceeding our younger years. And this is not to deny the realities of frailty and disability that we may suffer.
May we affirm our gifted age and live out the Last Third of life with courage and joy.
2. Deepen Your Embrace Of The Love That Carries
Isaiah 43:6 God speaks and says:
“ …even to your old age, I am he, and to gray hairs, I will carry you.I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save.”
We choose to see this as our final pilgrimage—the one that will ultimately lead us to our Beloved, our Source. Through the love of family, friends, colleagues and most important the relentless and first love of God in Jesus Christ, we learn to give, to contribute, to adventure, and to flourish evermore.
With you on The Pilgrimage!
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