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From Surface Chat to Soul Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter
SHOW NOTES:
On this show… we’re talking about how to have conversations that matter by taking surface chat to soul talk:, and why so many of us are craving deeper connection in a world that talks constantly but listens very little.
Have you ever walked away from a conversation that technically went fine… but somehow left you feeling empty? Like you exchanged words, updates, maybe even laughs, but nothing really landed?
Picture this. You’re standing in line somewhere. Or sitting across from someone you know well. The conversation starts the way it always does.
“How are you?”
“Good. Busy.”
“You?”
“Same.”
And just like that, the moment passes.
We’re surrounded by conversation. Messages. Posts. Voice notes. Podcasts. Hot takes. Opinions flying everywhere. We know what people ate for lunch, where they went on vacation, and how they feel about the latest headline. Social media gives us the illusion that we already know everything about everyone, so why ask more?
But our souls know better. Because knowing about someone isn’t the same as knowing someone.
There’s a quiet ache that shows up when conversations skim the surface too long. It’s not dramatic. It’s subtle. A sense that something meaningful was possible, but was never quite invited into the room.
And here’s the thing. This isn’t about forcing depth. It’s not about cornering someone with heavy questions or turning every interaction into a therapy session. It’s about learning how to notice moments where a conversation could go one layer deeper… and having the courage and curiosity to gently open that door.
CHALLENGE: Take one ordinary conversation this week and choose presence over pace. Ask one question that invites reflection, stay with the pause instead of rushing past it, and leave the chair open for something real to emerge.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
MATT MARTINO
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iTunes
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By Kendell BoysenSHOW NOTES:
On this show… we’re talking about how to have conversations that matter by taking surface chat to soul talk:, and why so many of us are craving deeper connection in a world that talks constantly but listens very little.
Have you ever walked away from a conversation that technically went fine… but somehow left you feeling empty? Like you exchanged words, updates, maybe even laughs, but nothing really landed?
Picture this. You’re standing in line somewhere. Or sitting across from someone you know well. The conversation starts the way it always does.
“How are you?”
“Good. Busy.”
“You?”
“Same.”
And just like that, the moment passes.
We’re surrounded by conversation. Messages. Posts. Voice notes. Podcasts. Hot takes. Opinions flying everywhere. We know what people ate for lunch, where they went on vacation, and how they feel about the latest headline. Social media gives us the illusion that we already know everything about everyone, so why ask more?
But our souls know better. Because knowing about someone isn’t the same as knowing someone.
There’s a quiet ache that shows up when conversations skim the surface too long. It’s not dramatic. It’s subtle. A sense that something meaningful was possible, but was never quite invited into the room.
And here’s the thing. This isn’t about forcing depth. It’s not about cornering someone with heavy questions or turning every interaction into a therapy session. It’s about learning how to notice moments where a conversation could go one layer deeper… and having the courage and curiosity to gently open that door.
CHALLENGE: Take one ordinary conversation this week and choose presence over pace. Ask one question that invites reflection, stay with the pause instead of rushing past it, and leave the chair open for something real to emerge.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
MATT MARTINO
Spotify
iTunes
Youtube