What happens when life shatters — and you still have to show up for your children?

In this deeply moving episode of From Tears to Triumph: A Widow’s Journey, we sit down with Allison Durst, a young widow and mother of four, to talk honestly about grief, trauma, faith, and survival after unimaginable loss.

Allison lost her husband, Will, suddenly at age 42 in a tragic car accident. Three of their children were in the car. At the same time, one of her children was battling cancer. In this conversation, Allison opens up about the first weeks of shock, the fog of grief, and the long road of helping four children grieve differently — each at their own age and stage.

We discuss:

• What the first weeks after loss really feel like

• How children grieve differently by age

• Parenting while grieving — without pretending you’re okay

• Letting kids see your grief without overwhelming them

• Trauma, flashbacks, and fear after loss

• The role of community, church, and practical support

• How to keep a spouse’s memory alive for children

• Finding meaning, purpose, and even gratitude after devastation

• Why grace — especially self-grace — is essential for widows

This episode is honest, tender, and deeply human. It’s for widows, parents, caregivers, friends walking alongside grief, and anyone who wonders how people keep going after the unthinkable.

You don’t have to have the answers.
You don’t have to be strong all the time.
You just have to take the next step.

🎙 Because grief doesn’t end — but neither does love.

Welcome back to From Tears to Triumph.

In our last episode, attorney Russ DeMott walked us through the basics of wills, trusts, and power of attorney documents. Today, Tim draws from 20 years of real-world experience working with families to share the things most people don’t know — until it’s too late.

This episode isn’t about defining legal terms.
It’s about practical, real-life lessons we’ve learned while helping clients navigate banks, hospitals, brokerage firms, and end-of-life decisions.

• Why a Power of Attorney isn’t immediately usable — and why banks often take 3–7 days (or longer) to approve it

• The biggest mistake parents make when they name two children as co-POAs

• How “springing” powers of attorney (requiring two doctors to sign off) can delay critical decisions

• Why naming beneficiaries correctly is essential for avoiding probate

• Common trust mistakes — including using dollar amounts instead of percentages

• What every family should keep in the car to make medical emergencies easier

• How to talk to your children about money, aging, and end-of-life wishes without causing conflict

These are the issues we see week after week — and our goal is to help you avoid unnecessary stress, delays, and family tension.

If you missed last week’s episode with attorney Russ DeMott, you can find it linked in the show notes.

 Widows navigating finances alone
 Adult children helping aging parents
 Anyone unsure whether they need a will or a trust
 Families wanting to avoid probate, conflict, and costly mistakes

Have questions?
We’re here to help.
Visit us at voyagefinancialpartners.com or call 843-285-7076 for guidance.

What is a power of attorney? Do you still need one after your spouse passes away? What’s the difference between a will and a trust—and how do you know which documents you actually need?

In this episode of From Tears to Triumph, Tim sits down with long-time friend and attorney Russ DeMott to break down the legal basics in a clear, compassionate way, especially for widows who feel overwhelmed by paperwork and “legalese.” Together they walk through what these documents are, why they matter, and how they can help protect you, your family, and your wishes.

🔹 Here’s what we cover:

• The difference between a general durable power of attorney and a healthcare power of attorney

• Who to choose as your agent (and common mistakes to avoid)

• What a will actually does—and what happens if you die without one

• How trusts work, why some families use them, and when they can help avoid probate

• Special considerations for widows with young children

• Why it’s important to review your documents after major life changes or a move to a new state

• How to find a trustworthy, local estate planning attorney

If you’re a widow wondering, “Do I have the right documents in place?” this conversation will help you feel more informed, prepared, and empowered to take your next step.

👉 This episode is for educational purposes only and is not legal or investment advice. Always consult a qualified attorney and financial professional in your state before making decisions about your own situation.

Keywords: widow estate planning, power of attorney explained, healthcare power of attorney, will vs trust, probate, financial planning for widows, Voyage Financial Partners, From Tears to Triumph podcast

🎙️ From Tears to Triumph: Understanding the “Big Beautiful Bill” for Widows 💰👩‍🦳

What does the “Big Beautiful Bill” really mean for widows and those who’ve recently lost a spouse? 🇺🇸💔 In this episode, Tim breaks down the new tax deductions, filing rules, and Social Security changes that are making waves — and explains what’s actually tax-free (and what’s not).

👉 Learn how the new bill affects:
✨ Standard deductions for widows over and under 65
💸 Social Security taxation myths vs. facts
🏠 State & local tax (SALT) caps and charitable deductions
🚗 Auto loan interest & overtime deductions
🍽️ Tip income tax breaks for working widows
👶 Child tax credits and more!

If you’re navigating finances after loss, this episode helps you understand where you stand heading into tax season — without the confusion. ❤️

💬 Have questions about your personal situation? Contact Voyage Financial Partners for widow-specific guidance.
📞 (843) 285-7076 | 🌐 www.voyagefinancialpartners.com

🙏 Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the podcast — it helps us reach more widows who need hope and clarity. 💙

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💔 From heartbreak to healing 🌅 — this week on From Tears to Triumph: A Widow’s Journey, host Tim sits down with Pat Kowalczyk, a courageous widow who shares her powerful story of faith, love, loss, and redemption.

Hear how Pat met her adventurous husband Joe on a blind date 🎃, built a beautiful life together, and faced the unimaginable after his battle with cancer. Through grief, single parenting, and rediscovering her faith 🙏, Pat’s story offers raw honesty, hope, and divine restoration.

If you’ve ever asked, “Why did God allow this?” or struggled to find purpose after loss, this episode will touch your heart and strengthen your faith ❤️.

🎧 Keywords: widow story podcast, Christian widow encouragement, grief and faith journey, widow healing testimony, overcoming loss, Christian podcast for widows, faith after death, From Tears to Triumph

In this episode of From Tears to Triumph, Tim and Lindsay explore why widows often withdraw after loss. 💔 Learn the science behind “grief brain,” how isolation protects the body, and small, compassionate steps to reconnect with life and others. 💜

Why do so many widows pull back after loss? Tim & Lindsay unpack:
🧠 “Grief brain” & nervous system overload
💔 The loneliness/shame spiral
🪜 Tiny, doable steps to re-enter life
🤝 How friends & family can truly help

This one’s compassionate, practical, and full of hope. If you’re grieving—or love someone who is—this is for you. 💜

In this heartfelt episode, Tim sits down with grief-literacy expert, teacher, and widow Kathi Balasek to explore how to truly support people through loss. 🌊 From raising five kids alone after tragedy to creating a new language for comforting grievers, Kathy shares practical tips, moving stories, and powerful lessons learned over 20+ years.

✨ What You’ll Discover:
🔹 Why “grief literacy” matters — and how to say the right things to someone grieving
🔹 Strategies Kathy used to guide her children through loss
🔹 How to handle awkward comments, anniversaries, and emotional triggers
🔹 Practical ways to show up for widows and grieving families

🎧 Listen now for real talk, tools, and hope for widows, families, and professionals who want to do better 💙

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Tim Hudson welcomes veteran realtor Melanie DeHaven (23+ years, Carolina Elite) to talk about one of the hardest decisions widows face: when and how to sell the marital home.

🏡 What You’ll Learn:
⏳ When it’s the right time to move after losing a spouse
🔎 How to choose a trusted, experienced realtor
📊 What really determines your home’s true market value
🧹 Staging, decluttering & making your home “saleable”
🏦 Mortgages without a job & financial planning tips
💵 Tax rules every widow should know (including the 2-year $500k exemption)

💔 Losing a spouse changes everything — from your heart to your finances. In this episode, Tim (financial advisor with a heart for widows) and Lindsay (widowhood & life coach) dive into one of the most common questions widows ask:
👉 “Should I gift money to my children, grandchildren, or loved ones after my spouse passes?”

✨ Together, we unpack both the financial rules and the emotional realities of giving:

• 📊 Financial Guidance: 2025 IRS gift tax limits ($19,000 per person), Form 709, lifetime exclusions, and smart planning tips before gifting.

• 💸 Practical Strategies: When it makes sense to give, how to avoid draining your retirement, and the impact of paying tuition or medical bills directly.

• 💞 Emotional Insights: Understanding grief-driven generosity, setting boundaries with kids, avoiding guilt-based giving, and preserving family harmony.

• 🧭 Legacy & Love: How to bless your children without jeopardizing your own long-term stability.

🎧 Whether you’re a widow navigating financial decisions or a family member supporting one, this episode will help you:
✅ Give with wisdom, not just emotion
✅ Protect your financial future while blessing loved ones
✅ Find non-financial ways to show love & presence

⭐ Tune in now for practical advice, heartfelt encouragement, and steps you can take to move forward with confidence.

👉 Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the podcast — your support helps widows everywhere find the guidance and hope they need.

Losing a spouse is life-changing — and when real estate is involved, the decisions can feel overwhelming. Should you keep your rental properties? Sell? Hire a property manager? In this powerful episode of From Tears to Triumph: A Widow’s Journey, financial advisor Tim Hudson is joined by real estate expert David Benham, who has over 20 years of experience owning everything from single-family rentals to commercial buildings.

Together, they walk widows through the practical and emotional steps of managing real estate after loss, including:

• How to evaluate the true value and income of your properties

• Understanding rental property expenses, taxes, and cash flow

• When to consider selling vs. holding for long-term gains

• The benefits and protections of using a property management company

• Legal and tax considerations, including LLCs, umbrella policies, and cost basis tracking

Whether you’re suddenly managing properties for the first time or deciding if real estate still fits into your financial future, this episode offers clear, compassionate guidance to help you make wise, confident decisions.