Life’s 2nd Act: A journey into finding direction and purpose

From the ego to the soul: the shift in the 2nd act


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In this episode, I speak to Debbie Thomas, a psychotherapist, about the transformative phase in midlife.
 
We discuss the shift from the ego-driven first act to the soul-driven second act, the importance of finding meaning and purpose, and the challenges and opportunities that come with this stage of life.
 
Debbie emphasises the need to acknowledge and explore feelings of anxiety and loss, and to give oneself permission to change and pursue new interests.
 
She also highlights the value of therapy or life coaching in navigating this transition and finding a sense of direction and fulfilment, as well as her personal story into her second act.
 

Takeaways

  • The second act of life is a natural and expected phase of growth and change.
  • Feelings of anxiety and loss during midlife can be signals for the need for change and exploration.
  • Finding meaning and purpose in the second act is important for personal fulfillment and wellbeing.
  • Giving oneself permission to change and pursue new interests is crucial.
  • Therapy or life coaching can be valuable in navigating significant life transitions and finding direction and fulfillment.
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    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction

    03:05 - Understanding Integrative Psychotherapy

    04:31 - Sense of Purpose and Second Act Concerns

    08:41 - Shifting Meaning and Purpose in the Second Act

    11:01 - Common Feelings and Challenges in Midlife

    13:54 - The Value of Talking and Seeking Support

    20:25 - Exploring Different Aspects of Self

    23:13 - The Importance of Intimacy and Relationships

    25:37 - Giving Yourself Permission for Change

    28:06 - Embracing the Opportunities of the Second Act

    29:34 - Debbie's Personal Journey and Transformation

    34:17 - Advice for Navigating the Second Act

    39:31 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts

     

    Find out more about Debbie: www.debbiethomastherapy.co.uk/

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