In this episode, I have the privilege of chatting with Carolyn Mayling, who shares her remarkable journey through midlife.
The conversation begins with Carolyn recounting her heart-wrenching experience of losing her daughter, Rosie, to a sudden illness. During this difficult time, she discovered an incredible strength within herself. She also delves into the profound impact of grief on her family and how it led her to create a charity in Rosie’s honour. This charity provides support and music therapy to children in hospitals.
Throughout the discussion, we explore themes of resilience, the significance of support, and the enduring legacy of love that transcends loss. Carolyn candidly shares her compelling decision to pursue motherhood again later in life. She also discusses the profound impact of losing Rosie on her marriage and the challenges she faced during her battle with cancer. Carolyn emphasises the transformative power of spiritual awakening and the importance of support and community in overcoming adversity.
Carolyn reflects on her newfound strength and her future aspirations. She continues her ongoing charity work and shares her writing endeavours, showcasing her resilience and determination.
Takeaways
The journey of grief is deeply personal and uniqueFinding strength in the face of unimaginable loss is possibleCreating a legacy can be a powerful way to honour loved onesSupport systems are crucial for bereaved familiesThe importance of open conversations about grief and lossResilience can emerge from the darkest experiencesIt's essential to seek help and support during tough timesThe IVF journey was filled with emotional ups and downsMotherhood at 54 brought new light and purpose to Carolyn's life.Grief can significantly impact relationships, leading to challenges in communicationSupport from friends and family is crucial during difficult timesSpiritual beliefs provided Carolyn with comfort and guidanceFinding strength in adversity can lead to personal growth and confidence.
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
02:58 - Life Before
05:50 - The Onset of Illness: A Mother's Despair
09:01 - The Diagnosis: A Journey Through Uncertainty
12:01 - The Heartbreaking Decision: Letting Go
14:59 - Coping with Loss: A Family's Struggle
18:01 - Creating a Legacy: The Birth of a Charity
21:07 - Support for Families: Building a Community
23:44 - The Journey to IVF: A Compelling Decision
30:03 - Navigating Grief: The Impact of Loss on Relationships
31:17 - Facing Adversity: Cancer and Personal Struggles
36:04 - Spiritual Awakening: Finding Comfort in Beliefs
39:00 - Resilience and Strength: Lessons Learned Through Loss
41:24 - Looking Ahead: Future Aspirations and Charity Work
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Learn more about Carolyn:
www.carolynmayling.com
Roșie's Rainbow Fund:
www.rosiesrainbowfund.co.uk
The Future is Rosie:
https://amzn.eu/d/9w4tmeU
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