Life’s 2nd Act: A journey into finding direction and purpose

Navigating love in midlife: dating apps, being single, loneliness, building confidence

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In this episode of Life’s 2nd Act, I speak with Lindsey Conen-Smith, a dating and relationship coach, about the complexities of dating in midlife. We discuss the challenges posed by dating apps, the importance of confidence, and the differences in how men and women approach dating.
 
Lindsey shares insights on the role of therapy, the evolution of online dating and the significance of understanding personal values and patterns in relationships. 
 
The conversation emphasises the need for proactivity in seeking love and the potential for personal growth during this transformative phase of life.
 
Takeaways
  • There's an abundance of choice and that's the problem.
  • Confidence can be knocked down after a long-term relationship.
  • Women take their time before re-entering the dating world.
  • Dating apps can be helpful, but overwhelming.
  • Loneliness after a relationship is real.
  • Be proactive. Love won't come knocking on your door.
  • You can still meet people organically.
  • It's about partnership and companionship.
  • Understanding personal values is crucial for dating.
    • Chapters
    00:00 - Introduction
    02:46 - Understanding Relationship Coaching
    04:14 - What Makes a Fulfilling Relationship in Midlife?
    05:53 - The Role of Confidence in Dating
    06:33 - Differences in Male and Female Dating Approaches
    08:41 - The Impact of Therapy on Dating Readiness
    09:42 - The Evolution of Online Dating
    12:38 - The Problem with Dating App Filters
    15:35 - Navigating Online Dating: Do's and Don'ts
    19:37 - Coaching for Clarity and Confidence
    22:42 - Identifying Patterns in Relationships
    23:50 - The Loneliness of Being Single in Midlife
    28:27 - Opportunities and Challenges of Being Single
    30:06 - Proactivity in Finding Love

     

    Learn more about Lindsey:

    https://theautumncoach.co.uk/

     

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    Life’s 2nd Act: A journey into finding direction and purposeBy Simon Burgess