For years, we viewed the lifestyle as our chance to experience true freedom. But we've come to realize we were really using it as a form of distraction and escapism. In this episode, we get VERY honest about how chasing validation and excitement left us feeling emptier than ever. A darker side of ENM that others wouldn't dare to tell you about... And how we're fixing it now!

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As attendees of MANY events over the years, we've seen it all when it comes to group play. And while some of it has clearly been fun and consensual for all, other instances had us questioning if group play rooms are the "perfect" place for predatory behavior... 

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We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services. Is this still ethical in the lifestyle? And what happens if that marketing goes just a little too far, into the territory of being straight-up dishonest? We discuss this, plus one HELLUVA dick show we went to...

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It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a couple. While we understand this concept, it does have us questioning.... When is it ok to be a little selfish in the lifestyle? And more importantly, when can that selfishness go a little too far? 

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A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get offended, listen to our take! 

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We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. But whose responsibility is it? And when do you call it? All of that and much more discussed on this week's episode of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast. 

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Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it's a very ethical way to get f-ed up out of your mind and play in the lifestyle. We share our opinions on this, including the pros and cons to "pre-consent." 

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After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one important question: How is this going to impact the lifestyle? Plus, a VERY colorful message from a listener had us both laughing and shaking our heads at the same time...

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A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did jumping straight into ethical non-monogamy impact our sex lives together? And what's our plan moving forward?

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We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interpersonal relationships, things can get sticky fast. We explain how this has impacted the amount of time we dedicate to lifestyle friendships, and our plan moving forward. Plus, we FINALLY took a vacation!!

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