We make trades in life. Some swaps are good and some are bad. Listen and learn that we don't make these swaps in our marriage.

People always ask me, "What is your best advice?" From dating to married 30 years plus. Here are my best advice for a strong and healthy marriage.

One of the biggest mistakes we can make in marriage, is to change our spouse. We want to make them into our mold. We need to love and accept our spouse as they are. Listen and learn how to love our spouse, instead of changing our spouse.

Maturity is a big part of who we really are. Without it,our life and marriage will fall apart. Listen and learn what and why maturity is important.

The real person is what is on the inside. Our character and maturity is the real us. We need these character qualities in us, so we can have a strong marriage.

Often times we judge our spouse by the outward appearance. Their looks and their body are temporal, but their character lasts forever. Listen to learn what are stages of character and how to grow from them.

Over the years, our marriage has become dry, hard, and dead. We argue more and fall out of friendship. We don't know what to do, except for divorce. Here are 4 things we can do as spouses to change our marriage in less than a minute.

We bring the baggage of our past wounds and experiences. We bring behaviors that will destroy our marriage. It's time to remove these 4 negative behaviors from our marriage.

Do we know how to make our marriage work? Since there is no instructional manuel on how to make our marriage work. Listen to and learn how to make our marriage work.

Our job is not please our spouse, but to bring happiness to them. We can work to please our spouse, so not to get into trouble. Learn how to bring happiness into your marriage.