Fun & Away Together

Secrets: “little” ones, big ones, remain just that – secrets. Rather than build up, they bring down a marriage little by little and eventually, there is complete breakdown. Consider if you have been keeping secrets and the reasons why and work on bringing them to light for the long term good of your marriage. 

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Marriage should just work, after all isn't it about two willing people getting into the union? But then isn't going for marriage counselling a bit "excess?" Isn't it just for those couples going through a crisis? Marriage takes work but exactly how much? And does the work ever stop? Listen to today's podcast to help determine this when it comes to working on your marriage....

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Extravagance is a term more often linked to a kind of lifestyle or spending habit that is a bit on the excessive side. It could hardly be used to refer to the kind of love expressed by a person for another. What if though this was actually the case? Would you consider your love for your spouse "extravagant?"

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Do you know what you don't know? In other words, "what don't you know about your spouse that you are striving to learn a bit more?" That could be to difficult to know....but how about beginning with what you do know as you work towards the unknown?

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We at times want to know which actions warrant a person to be in the "safe / danger zone". As views are relative, boundaries within a marriage help a couple determine what would offend their spouse or harm their marriage. 

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Do we have a common outlook in areas of our marriage that are important to both of us or do we hold individual positions and expect our spouse to understand our point of view? Family background, personal experiences – a variety of things influence our views; important is to agree with your spouse a common outlook so that you are on the same page. 

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Choices are made everyday of our lives, knowingly or unknowingly....the hard part comes in when we are not always happy about the outcome of a choice.  Consequences like the day after night will definitely arise. What choices can we then make when it comes to marriage so that we are intentional about the outcomes we want? Find out what a couple of 6 children decided to do on intentionally spending frequent alone time together. 

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How often do you keep score with your spouse and don't even know it? Is there an ideal score as to how engaged you can be to mirror your spouse's "good behavior" or lack of it for that matter in the marriage relationship?....find out in this episode of Fun & Away together on "Keeping Score". 

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