Day of Events:  February 16, 2024

Monkey Bread for my son and Sherbert Punch for my daughter- love the kiddos!!

My job as a parent and I take it seriously and I communicate it well, I think! 

Scarlett Davis

Facebook: Future Single Lady

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Day of Events: February 17, 2024

An entire day of gathering my things from around the house to help respectfully create more definition between each person's space; an exhausting task but also incredibly rewarding, too!

On this day, I was primarily focused on getting all the stuff I had stored in the spare room (and there was a lot of it!) out of it so that my future ex could have his own personal space.

Note: a lot of these things were baby keepsakes, tax returns, excess work supplies sometimes used at home, family paperwork, family pictures, printers,  etc- the stuff no one wants to be in charge of or have to deal with but someone's got to do it, right?

Scarlett Davis

Facebook: Future Single Lady

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Day of Events: February 15, 2024

Switching rooms, preparing finances, hanging out with kids because their dad left town (yet again!), son expresses thanks, badass daughter faces disappointment, the kids save for cars, helping my kids avoid manipulation and learning to receive gifts...

Scarlett Davis

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Day of Event: February 13, 2024

The day after I declared my desire for freedom and the interactions  with the future ex... he already had a lawyer and the deceit was already in full swing and I was just barely getting a taste of it, only just starting to see how the man I'd been with for two decades was turning on me in what would rapidly become full-on hatred.

Scarlett Davis

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Day of Event: February 14, 2024 aka Valentine's Day!

A lover's holiday spent loving myself and my cherished loved ones!!

My kids, my family...  and psychic readings.  what?  lol, yes, a little psychic "muscle" flex- we all possess this gift and while some flex it and work it out like a body builder, some let it atrophy and that's okay.  This was just a mild, occasional workout, lol.

An amazing interaction with my daughter I'll always cherish... I'm a lucky mommie!!

Scarlett Davis

Facebook: Future Single Lady

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Day of Events chronicled: January 31 - February12, 2024

Anniversary of the day I told my husband of almost two decades that I wanted to be family, just not married to him anymore...

I couldn't stand the thought of going into a lovers' holiday pretending to be IN love anymore and didn't want to set that example of falseness for my children or show them that the way I was being treated was acceptable.

This begins the journal entries I made on these days about how things went down and what happened and my commentary on all of it.

Scarlett Davis

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Day of Event: March 25, 2024

Day one of drama- first recording of what I'm dealing with in this process; it's not day one of the process but it's the first day that I'm angry, hurt, and just generally emotional enough to create a record of it.

It's the day before our first court appearance which is to determine Temporary Orders- judge approved legal orders that set the tone and expectation for how things shall be in the interim between now and the divorce being finalized- who gets to stay in the home, who is paying what bills, where the kids will be,,, all sorts of major life changing things.  As if that's not scary enough- being literally judged by a stranger who has the power to change your life forever, I ad just received some distressing news from my lawyer; I was a wreck.

Not only that, but my future ex-husband and I lived in the same house with our two almost grown children and he was obviously manipulating the kids- suddenly became "father of the year" in his demeanor towards them- complimentary instead of yelling, cussing, name calling, and generally speaking down to them, started going on long walks with them and "just talking" though judges' standing orders say that no one is supposed to talk about the case to or in front of our children (yet they were well-informed and not from me!)

He also suddenly became best buds with the women of his family who... let's just say that "complimentary" towards or about them would be on the opposite end of the spectrum of how he actually thought and behaved about and towards them; they began taking long weekends away where my daughter, the youngest child, and sometimes my son were isolated with them and their very strong opinions...

This is the beginning of my journey to singledom and it is dramatic!!

WARNING- MAY BE TRIGGERING!!  LISTEN WITH CAUTION!!

Scarlett Davis

Facebook: Future Single Lady

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