https://youtu.be/-as6B2VoquY
Whenever we think about the purpose of life, (especially when we are young) … we usually boil it down to the 3 basic things we heard and saw growing up:
1. EDUCATION
2. CAREER
3. FAMILY
“You need to get an education!! You need to go to college!! You need to get a job… so you can have a family… so you can live on a cul-de-sac / drive a minivan / and get a 4K TV … that you sit in front of, until you DIE!!”
IE: The reality for most of us is, since Junior High … “LIFE” has been like this TRAIN-RIDE that you’ve been on …and each year, the train gets faster and faster!!
It’s just full-speed head… because again:
“I’ve got to graduate High school, so I can go to college, so I can get a job…
so I can raise a family, so I can live in a cul-de-sac, so I can drive a mini-van, so I can retire;
so I can excel, succeed, and WIN… at this game called ‘life’.”
Yet, the reality is that so many people relate to the poet and great philosopher Henry David Thoreau, who said: “(Most men)… The mass of men, lead lives of quiet desperation.”
Then, there was William Wallace… (who in BRAVEHEART) stood before all his warriors; who in this moment, after years of fighting… Find themselves full of FEAR;
--they find themselves WEARY from war, ready to QUIT and go home.
IE: The battle cry of these men was self-preservation, safety and comfort.
And so, they said to their leader, (they said) - “We want to leave and to run, so that we may live.”
“We want to go home, for the English are too many.”
So, William Wallace gives them that ROUSING SPEECH where he says -- “FIGHT, and you may die.”
“RUN, and you’ll live… for at least a while.”
“But dying in your beds many years from now, would you be willing to trade all of the days (from this day to that)… FOR ONE CHANCE, just one chance… to come back here and tell our enemies; that:
-- ‘They may take our LIVES, but they will never take our FREEDOM’!!”
IE: He gives them a CAUSE / He gives them PURPOSE!!
And then he summarized his speech, by saying -- “Every man dies, but only a few men really live!”
I remember watching that in High School and going – “Man, that fires me up!!”
“I too want meaning and purpose to my life!!”
“I want to fight for a cause!!”
“I want to live for something greater than myself
But about 10 years later, (in my mid 20’s)… I experienced what I called ‘A Quarter-Life-Crisis’.
I looked around and thought – “Everything I’m chasing and pursuing, ISN’T satisfying my heart.”
And I was like – “I don’t want this. I don’t want to LIVE, and then DIE in this nothingness.”
So, in this midst of this season of sadness and gloominess… I remember that I randomly went and sat-down in my DAD’S office… and he looked up at me, (saw my deflated demeanor) and said:
-- “What’s wrong son?”
And I told him… I said – “Dad, I just don’t really know what I want;”
“…I don’t really know what I’m supposed to do with my life.”
-- And Dad said, “Well son, you’ve got to build your life on something…”