I never thought of there being a good way of grieving, nor had I ever given much thought to grief being something that could be extremely faith-challenging.

However, all of that changed, and all of my preconceived notions went out the window with the loss of my beloved youngest daughter. I learned a lot about what I believe and my faith. I became a very "informed griever." I had a lot of questions, accusations, and blame to throw at God. The blessing is that He is patient, slow to anger, and knows me very well. Surprisingly, the answers that He sent rarely came through the people or the things that I would have expected.

References: Good Grief by Granger E. Westberg

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  LIWI W.I.V.E.S. is highlighting the amazing work of shelters that we support through our annual "Hooked Up and Knit Together In Love "  signature Winter project. 

Join our host for a conversation with Sierra Lyon Development Coordinator of New Horizons La Crosse, WI.

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This week's episode invites you to challenge yourself to look at difficult instances as "perspective pushers" that life sends as paradigm shift opportunities designed to help you change your perspective to see the world from a different ‘vantage point.’

Overcoming trauma from betrayal

Listen in as we take a look at betrayal as an offense and overcoming the trauma from betrayal.

Research_References

 https://www.health.qld.gov.au/news-events/news/7-amazing-things-that-happen-to-your-body-while-you-sleep

Betrayal Trauma: The phrase "betrayal trauma" can refer to a kind of trauma independent of the reaction to the trauma. From Freyd (2008): Betrayal trauma occurs when the people or institutions on which a person depends for survival significantly violate that person ...

The Trauma of Intimate Partner Betrayal George S. Everly, Jr., Ph.D., 2018.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month!  We are presenting EPISODE 2 of  "The Heart of the Matter Series" featuring Charesse Barrett.

Charesse is a Believer and Lover of God, Christ, and the Holy Spirit, mother of 4 Beautiful Children, a seasoned Pharmaceutical Industry Professional,  a Writer & Creative, and also a Domestic Violence Survivor! 

Join your host Bonnie Allen-Nadella as she helps unpack this compelling story of survival and victory!

Listen in as we discuss removing emotional walls and establishing healthy boundaries.

References: 

TherapistAid.com_Personal Boundary Chart

The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connections,  and Courage By Dr. Brene Brown

PsychCentral.com

Emotions are totally devalued when you are in an abusive situation, and by the time you emerge from the abuse, you may find that some emotions have been stifled and left unexpressed for years. Join me as I discuss how I got in touch with my feelings of anger to release the abuser and move forward emotionally.

Today's episode touches lightly on Bonnie Allen-Nadella's experiences, gives encouragement, and lays the groundwork for future episodes.

Tune in Bi-weekly for empowering and uplifting stories from phenomenal women who have been set free of abuse and struggle and can extend to you their experiences and strategies to victory and success, infused with HOPE for your future.

Remember

“Abuse is a coward’s excuse for the misuse of another person.“ BAN

Join us as we conclude our  Domestic Violence portion of our "The Heart of The Matter Series" Today's discussion and insights with Victoria White.

Victoria is an expert in the field of counseling and special education. She received her Master’s Degree from New York University in Clinical Studies/Law. Her life’s work has and always will, center around helping those in any situation they may find themselves in and supplying them with the care they need. 

To schedule counseling with Victoria  Office # 908-998-3176 or 9084562024.  Online scheduling is available http://calendly,com/theplaceiibe