Use Absence to increase respect and honor
If you're already established in a group, temporary withdrawal will make you more talked about and more admired..you must learn when to leave, create value with scarcity. 
Even in love absences can flame and excite.. It can only make love grow stronger.. 
What stays too long makes you feel ungrateful.
What stays away makes us withdraw and makes us uncomfortable
Why haven't you come to see me? Are words sweeter then “why did you come again”
The more you are seen from, you become a habit, and start to get pushed away, no matter how good or different your content is. 
When you're absent your imagination starts wondering, when you only speak at the most critical moments you are heard whenever you speak. 
Create patterns of showing up and withdrawing for a while. 
You create a death without a death, and when you come back you are coming back to life. 
Reversal - the need to withdraw only comes after a certain amount of power comes.. Until that comes absence is dangerous. 
In love make yourself omni presence so you show up everywhere while you're gone. 
Remember you must be loved deeply to be missed.

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