We need to understand that calling sin what it is, is not judgment. If I love you, I must do everything I can to lead you to repentance. We want to encourage others who were once a part of the fellowship to come back. All will be made whole again, if the one who has fallen down comes to Christ in repentance. This doesn’t make me your judge; it makes me your friend. Confess, repent, believe, and come back. Or, as the case may be, stop pretending to be a Christian when you’re not. Again, this doesn’t make me a judge; it means I love you in Christ. What do we do when we see someone who has spiritually fallen down?