Job was stripped down of all things and even his friends with the best intentions hurt him with words that they intended to be of encouragement.
We cry out to God and sometimes we need to be open and honest with how we feel as we pray to him, but we never forget who he is. We lament individually and cry to Him with the assurance that He will find us right where we are. Peronal lament does not have to be done as a formal prayer, and it can take place anywhere and aytime, and we can even borrow words form the Bible to cryout to Him
We are not alone, we can look for someone to be byourside and we need to understand that what is most needed rather than solutions or advises is for us to sit down with the suffering ones and be together as we navigate the dark night.
Lament, as any discipline, needs time and endurance to suceed.