Narcissists will drive you crazy if you let them.

They have the ability to put pressure on your shoulders until you can no longer withstand

Their Goal :

Is to have you in An Emotional State/ Mental Place where they can further Traumatize YOU/ and in some cases RECORD YOU

For self please/ pleasuring

Their Hope is that It will be difficult for you to make logical decisions.

Then, the NARC

will ask you for something they know you will likely agree to.

Therefore, it’s important to recognize when someone is trying to push you to your limits.

Don’t agree to what they say just to feel relieved

. Remember that they are the ones who caused your stress in the first place.

Don’t be afraid to talk about their intentions and ask them to explain why they pushed your buttons.

If narcissists avoid such conversations, try to keep a safe distance from them.

1. Mirroring the Victim. They will quickly convince you of their innocence when they mess up. They may appear flawless on the outside, but inside they are the cunning fox, constantly thinking of new ways to appear innocent. Whenever they mess up, they pretend to feel guilty but provide reasons why it's not entirely their fault. If you have doubts, listen to your gut feeling more and investigate the truth without letting the narcissist know what you are up to. Point out their mistakes instead of defending them. Show them how to be better. If your narcissist is a somewhat normal person, they will use your feedback for constructive improvement.
2. The Storm of Negativity. Sometimes narcissists act intentionally negative, such as speaking loudly or displaying bad manners. This way, they can control the situation and manipulate others. They know that fear is a powerful tool to make people listen, withdraw, and help them control. Therefore, narcissists use aggression or negativity to lower the energy of their victims. Positive energy is not easy to control, so they try to turn it into negative energy. If someone suddenly becomes excessively negative or aggressive, you should pay attention to see if someone is trying to manipulate you through negativity. Try to stay positive and make jokes about what they say. Try to turn negativity into laughter.
3. Cheater’s Poker. This game is quite easy to explain. When it comes to being the best cheater with a poker face, the narcissist is at the top of the list. Their entire personality is based solely on a lie. It’s important not to trust a narcissist when they express their positive sides, as these are simply fabricated. Don’t let them deceive you.