In this episode of Chat With Dr. Kat, we take a deep and honest look at gaslighting — what it is, how it works, and why it’s one of the most damaging forms of emotional manipulation. Dr. Kat breaks down the real definition of gaslighting, where the term originated, and the many subtle ways it shows up in everyday life. 

You’ll learn the difference between:

• misunderstandings vs. intentional manipulation
• defensiveness vs. control
• perception differences vs. psychological distortion

Dr. Kat walks through the major gaslighting tactics — countering, trivializing, denial, withholding, projection, love bombing, deflecting, and more — all explained through real-world examples from couples, friendships, parenting, and workplace dynamics.

Most importantly, she shares practical tools to help you recognize gaslighting, communicate more effectively, and create healthier patterns in your relationships. Whether you’ve experienced gaslighting, wondered if you’re unintentionally doing it, or simply want to understand it better, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and actionable insight.

And if you’re in a relationship where manipulation and emotional distortion feel constant, Dr. Kat explains when gaslighting crosses into emotional abuse, and what steps you can take to get support.

✨ No fluff. No judgment. Just real talk that leads to real change.

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