Join us as we sit down with the 2023 Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year Branch winners and share some of the things we wish we could tell our younger military spouse selves. We dive into embracing who you are (even when military life tries to put you in a box), the surprises this lifestyle throws at you, and why building your community is absolutely everything.

We're talking about everything from how to not completely lose your mind during PCS season and figuring out travel regs to making friends when you're the new person in town AGAIN, navigating deployments, and being intentional about your relationships.

We wrap things up talking about why self-care isn't just a buzzword when you're a military spouse, it's a necessary part of finding comfort in the chaos. Grab your headphones and settle in as we Gather at Grey.

Resources: PCS Like a Pro, InDependent, Coast Guard Mutual Assistance, CG Suprt

In this episode, we dive deep into what Memorial Day truly means. We sit down with two incredible Gold Star spouses, Theresa Jones and Heather Piedrahita, who open up about their personal journeys through loss and how they've found strength along the way. You'll hear them talk about the messy, complicated parts of grief that nobody really prepares you for, why sharing stories matters so much when it comes to remembering loved ones, and how memorial traditions keep evolving over time. They also get into some real talk about the community support these families need and the policy changes that could actually make a difference. Plus, there's an honest conversation about all the bureaucratic stuff surviving spouses have to deal with - from financial impacts to jumping through endless hoops - and how we can all find more meaningful ways to honor this day.

TAPS, Gary Sinise Foundation, Pat Tillman Foundation, Children of Fallen Patriots, Folds of Honor, Folded Flag Foundation, Angels of America’s Fallen, Love Lives on Act 2025

In this conversation, Courtney and Tonya explore the profound impact of military life on their worldviews, family dynamics, and personal growth. They discuss the emotional journey of transitioning out of military life, the joys and challenges of motherhood, and the importance of community support.

May is National Military Appreciation Month and Military Spouse Appreciation Day!

We're checking in on our intentions for the year and focusing on the where we are on the journey of navigating our 2025 focus 'confident patience'.

Also why are these kids we made so much like us?!??!

This week we're celebrating Galentine's Day by discussing the importance of female friendships, especially in the context of military life. We brought in our besties to share personal stories about how we met, some of the challenges we've faced, and how we have supported each other through various life events, including loss and transitions. We honor the beauty of connection, understanding, and being there for one another, regardless of distance or circumstances.

Grab your headphones and join us as we Gather at Grey

There is a lot going on politically in the US and it feels extra chaotic at times. Join us as we welcome Karla Langham, a veteran Navy spouse and policy advocate, to answer questions and share insight about the implications of executive orders and the economic impact on military spouses and family. Now is a time when we need community support and grassroots efforts to navigate these challenges more than ever. Join us as we Gather at Grey

Join us as we welcome Jennifer Barnhill to unpack the flurry of executive orders that have been passed in the first week of the President's 2nd term.

Engage further with our guest Jennifer Barnhill:

IG: @WeServeToo

Host of Military Dinner Table Conversations

Welcome to the holiday season, where we are navigating all of the things and feelings while trying to hold on to the joy and magic. For our final episode of the season we're talking about everything from holiday traditions to holiday travel and more. We can't wait to close out the year with you as we once again, Gather at Grey.

Tonya and Courtney take a step back in this boiled down casual chat to explain why they started Gather at Grey and the meaning behind the name, the community, and the song that started it all.