Gavel Gab

Carlie welcomes family law attorney Tiffany Lesnik, who specializes in domestic violence and high-conflict custody cases. Tiffany shares her impactful journey from aspiring psychologist to strong advocate for victims, detailing the emotional process of leaving an abusive marriage just before starting law school.

Carlie and Tiffany discuss the vital role of empathy in legal advocacy and the need for legal professionals to understand the psychological dynamics at play in family law. Tiffany emphasizes the importance of knowledge in empowering victims, highlighting her initiative, Live Free Legal, which offers resources and support for women navigating difficult relationships.

Their conversation explores the complexities of domestic abuse, the importance of a support system, and finding joy amidst challenges. This episode aims to inform and provide hope for those seeking guidance in family law.

HIGHLIGHTS:

5:50 Journey to Law School

8:47 Personal Experience with Domestic Violence

12:06 Advice for Abuse Survivors

14:43 Live Free Legal Introduction

17:07 Tips for Preparation

21:09 Resources and Support

connect with Tiffany:

Website & Resources

https://www.livefreelegal.com/

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In this episode, Carlie interviews Olivia Reiff, a recent graduate from Campbell Law School, who shares her unique journey into the legal field after a background in art conservation. They explore her experiences balancing a demanding internship in family law with her academic responsibilities, revealing how this pivotal role ignited her passion for the legal profession.

Olivia candidly discusses the challenges of managing her time, the sacrifices she made, and the pressure to excel, all while finding support within the firm. They also touch on her evolving confidence as she transitioned from intern to contributor, and conclude with light-hearted reflections on her personal interests, offering valuable insights for current law students and prospective legal professionals navigating similar paths.

HIGHLIGHTS:

1:25 Meet Olivia Reiff

3:39 Law School Journey

5:29 Balancing Internships and Classes

8:34 Sacrifices for Success

13:37 Transitioning Through Semesters

15:36 The Gamble of Internships

21:24 Beyond Law: Personal Interests

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Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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In this episode of the Gavel Gap podcast, Carlie chats with Alisha Taylor, a personal injury attorney whose journey from a first-generation Peruvian-American to a legal professional is both inspiring and relatable.

Carlie and Alisha discuss her resilience through law school, the misconceptions surrounding personal injury lawyers, and the human side of her practice. Alisha shares insights on legal marketing, the challenges of social media, and her evolving perspective on prenups.

This episode is a celebration of resilience, passion and the determination needed to succeed as a modern attorney, particularly as a woman in an ever-evolving field.

HIGHLIGHTS:

2:13 Journey to Becoming a Lawyer

4:02 Overcoming Law School Challenges

7:34 The Transition from Paralegal to Attorney

9:07 Insights on Personal Injury Law

12:40 Misconceptions About Personal Injury

16:59 Navigating Social Media as a Lawyer

24:29 Advice for Female Attorneys

26:25 Thoughts on Prenups

31:23 Fun Lightning Round

connect with Alisha:

Follow her on Instagram

sponsors:

One Eleven Group

Quest

giveaway:

Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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• follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagram
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• comment on the episode on Apple or Spotify

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In this episode, Carlie engages in a rich conversation with Rebecca Page Caplinger, founder of Caplinger Consulting, as they explore her unique journey in the legal field and the challenges of building authentic brands for lawyers. Rebecca shares her personal experiences with the bar exam, including her multiple attempts and the strategies she employed while dealing with ADD. They discuss the significance of social media in shaping legal identities, emphasizing the importance of authenticity over conformity.

Rebecca opens up about her health struggles, work-life balance, and the necessity of self-care and advocacy. Her insights provide actionable advice for aspiring lawyers on leveraging social media while maintaining individuality. They reflect on the themes of resilience, storytelling, and the transformative power of failure in one's career. Ultimately, this episode inspires legal professionals to prioritize mental and physical health while creating genuine connections in their work.

HIGHLIGHTS:

2:29 The Bar Exam Journey

3:46 Techniques for ADD and ADHD

7:02 The Power of Self-Advocacy

11:13 Starting a Business in Law

12:57 The Impact of Social Media

17:30 Embracing Your Unique Assets

27:11 Understanding ADD as a Superpower

30:28 Overcoming Fear of Social Media

34:25 Trends in Social Media for Lawyers

35:52 Balancing Work and Life

37:50 Vision for the Future

41:55 The Value of Perseverance

connect with Rebecca:

Side Bar with Bec

Rebecca on Instagram

sponsors:

One Eleven Group

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giveaway:

Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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In this episode of the Gavel Gab podcast, host Carlie shares an insightful conversation with Lara Bokovay, a mother, coach, intuitive, and former corporate professional who left behind the high-stress world of business to pursue a life aligned with her true values.

Lara’s transition from corporate was not a singular event but rather a culmination of significant experiences that included health issues stemming from workplace stress and the emotional toll of repeated miscarriages, pushing her to reassess her priorities and ultimately leading to a summer of self-discovery that ignited her passion for coaching.

Following her exit from corporate life, Lara spent time reorienting herself and discovering her love for coaching, particularly in guiding individuals through career transitions. After the birth of her daughter, she began to balance motherhood with entrepreneurship, navigating the complexities of building a business during the early months of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Carlie and Lara explore the intimate details of Lara’s journey through her divorce, marked by financial and emotional complexities that many listeners may resonate with. Lara shares her experience of navigating a legal and financial landscape without a prenup, discussing how her choices were influenced by the dynamics of her relationship and broader societal pressures.

Lara candidly discusses the financial insecurities that arose from the separation, including her decision to forfeit financial support to ensure her long-term independence. She recounts the struggles of balancing motherhood and business during turbulent times, emphasizing the importance of aligning her career with her values as a parent. Lara underscores the significance of creating a life that allows for both professional fulfillment and family engagement.

HIGHLIGHTS:

2:11 Transition from Corporate to Coaching

6:52 Navigating Personal Turmoil and Business Growth

8:10 Evolution of Business and Motherhood

11:26 Challenges of Divorce as a Business Owner

15:23 Long-Term Strategies for Success

17:40 Insights on Prenups and Marital Agreements

22:56 Conversations Around Prenups and Relationships

29:49 Final Advice for Entrepreneurial Parents

connect with Lara:

Lara's website

LinkedIn

sponsors:

One Eleven Group

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giveaway:

Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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• follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagram
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Carlie speaks with Kerri Logan Shirk, founder of Sun Lover Travel, specializing in destination weddings and luxury getaways. Keri shares her journey from the corporate world to entrepreneurship, sparked by a pivotal moment with a challenging client.

They explore the evolving landscape of destination weddings, particularly the impact of the pandemic, and the key distinctions between wedding planners and destination wedding travel agents. Kerri offers practical insights on planning, guest expectations, and financial considerations. She also reflects on her own destination weddings and the importance of prenups in the context of marriage and business.

Lastly, Carlie and Kerri discuss the vital role of mentorship in building a supportive community within the industry. Kerri's experiences provide valuable guidance for those interested in destination weddings or starting their own businesses.

HIGHLIGHTS:

3:06 The Leap to Entrepreneurship

5:21 First Year Lessons

7:04 Navigating Destination Weddings

10:10 Travel Agent vs. Wedding Planner

13:20 Working with Brides

15:37 Trends in Destination Weddings

17:27 Wedding Accommodation Etiquette

20:04 RSVPs in Different Destinations

23:04 Caribbean vs. European Weddings

24:49 Personal Wedding Stories

29:57 Favorite Wedding Destinations

30:47 The Case for Prenups

36:07 Prenup Advice for Couples

38:40 Lightning Round Fun

40:26 Importance of Mentorship

connect with Kerri:

Sun Lover Travel | Caribbean Kerri

Instagram | Facebook

sponsors:

One Eleven Group

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giveaway:

Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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• follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagram
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In this episode of Gavel Gab, Carlie continues her exploration of launching her law firm in her 20s, focusing on key decisions made during the start-up phase. She shares her approach to selecting an office space that reflects professionalism while supporting her personal work style, choosing a co-working location for its accessibility and community benefits.

The episode includes Carlie's journey in client acquisition, highlighting the importance of marketing strategies, particularly through social media, and the impact of working with a marketing agency. She also previews upcoming insights on the systems and technologies that will aid in the growth and efficiency of her practice, aiming to offer helpful lessons for fellow entrepreneurs.

HIGHLIGHTS:

1:33 Launch Day Reflections

3:23 Office Space Decisions

13:29 Marketing Moves

20:32 Hiring for Growth

23:22 Upcoming Systems Episode

sponsors:

One Eleven Group

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Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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In this episode, Carlie spends time with Versaviya Despars, a master storyteller and design strategist who aids entrepreneurs in clarifying their messaging and enhancing their brands. Versaviya shares her journey from video production to business ownership, emphasizing the significance of storytelling in marketing as a foundational tool for customer connection.

They discuss her experiences in overcoming challenges like imposter syndrome and the importance of pivoting in business. Versaviya provides insights on building authentic relationships with clients and the emotional hurdles of entrepreneurship.

As she celebrates her highest revenue month, she offers valuable advice for those interested in storytelling and branding, encouraging listeners to reach out for support in refining their messaging.

HIGHLIGHTS:

19:16 Discovering the Power of Storytelling

19:26 Digital Scavenger Hunt Platform

19:54 Finding My Niche

30:03 Highs and Lows of Business

35:46 Lightning Round Questions

connect with Versaviya:

Website | LinkedIn

mentioned in this episode:

Building a Story Brand by Donald Miller

sponsors:

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Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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In this episode of Gavel Gab, Carlie explores the entertaining and chaotic realm of family law with her colleague Andrea. They kick off with a hilarious yet cautionary tale of a client whose misguided efforts to protect his assets during divorce lead to comical blunders, showcasing the pitfalls of deceit in marriage.

Their conversation shifts to the trend of parents interfering in their adult children's divorce, where they emphasize the importance of independence amidst emotional turmoil. Carlie and Andrea examine how new relationships can complicate divorce negotiations, often causing shifts in focus and leading to contentious battles.

Amidst the absurdities, they recount the outrageous antics of clients, from refusing to leave their spouse's home over a fondness for plants to the ever-amusing courtroom attire choices that provoke both laughter and frustration.

As they navigate these captivating stories, both highlight the profound emotional stakes in family law and the essential role of skilled legal counsel to navigate through the chaos.

HIGHLIGHTS:

3:44 Divorce Stories from the Field

4:47 The Role of Parents in Divorce

7:50 Adult Children in Divorce Cases

13:32 Challenges with New Partners

14:11 Bizarre Stories from Family Law

16:49 Venting About Family Law Clients

21:22 Custody Battles Over Pets

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Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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In this episode of Gavel Gab, Carlie explores the journey of Andrea Odom, a first-year law student at Campbell Law. She reflects on her path to law school, influenced by her previous work as a paralegal and the encouragement from prominent women in law.

Andrea opens up about her first-year challenges and victories, showcasing the supportive community at Campbell Law that fosters collaboration over competition. Both discuss her experiences with the Socratic method, the balance of family life as a mother and wife, and the impact of imposter syndrome. Andrea's story serves as an inspiring testament to personal growth and resilience in pursuing a legal career.

HIGHLIGHTS:

2:14 Lightning Round Fun

4:50 The Journey to Law School

6:26 Choosing Campbell Law

9:34 Student Experience at Campbell

12:36 Overcoming 1L Challenges

16:52 Work-Life Balance Insights

19:36 Lessons Learned from 1L

23:35 Celebrating 1L Achievements

27:00 Advice for Future Law Students

29:02 Giveaway Announcement

sponsors:

One Eleven Group

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giveaway:

Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide

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