In this episode of T For The Table, Tony and Terrell break down why so many gay men fall into people-pleasing — from growing up in survival mode to seeking validation in queer spaces. We talk about the difference between kindness and self-abandonment, introduce the Gay People-Pleaser Archetypes, and share real boundary scripts you can start using today. Plus, our rapid-fire game “Is It Nice… or Is It People-Pleasing?” brings laughs with real insight.