Siren and Wendy are back, diving Tongue First into the tender, chaotic, and life-shifting moments that shape who we are — from those first little closet cracks to the full-body ohhh moments of queer epiphany. This episode gets beautifully real about gender, identity, desire, and the messy magic of introducing a queer partner to your kids.

In The First Course, Siren opens up about her gender awakening — the thousand tiny moments that whispered, then demanded, the truth. Wendy shares her own journey of expression, comfort, and androgynous attraction. Together, they explore the difference between wanting to be her… and wanting to kiss her.

In The Second Course, it’s Queer-piphany time as the hosts listen to your community-submitted stories — raw, emotional, funny, and deeply relatable. From crushes to cooter tingles, every epiphany offers another angle of what it means to come home to yourself.

In The Third Course, they get honest about queer love and parenthood: — introducing your partner to your kids for the first time, — navigating blended families, — honoring boundaries and communication, — and modeling authenticity so children grow up unafraid.

Plus: The palate cleanser gets unhinged (ear-licking??), the chat gets feral, and Siren and Wendy roast their younger selves’ fashion choices without mercy. And finally, they wrap it all up with a juicy Last Lick featuring their L Word crushes… some of which get very passionate.

Recorded live on TikTok, where the chaos is delicious and the community is loud.

Until next time — stay curious, stay queer, and don’t forget to lick responsibly.