December 14, 2023

Gentle Village #006: Attachment, Communication, Sharing vs Dumping

56 minutes

We are back, after a few months pause. In this episode we discuss:

Learned Secure Attachment

Neil's changing attachment strategies

Over-Sharing vs Mutual Care

Emotional dumping, lubricating with logic

Speech, language our lens of awareness

Deserving and privilege

Helping ourselves and others from Victim mindset using tentative offerings

Rupture and repair

Labelling and pigeon-hole-ing

Triggers

The damage of having your phone on you

Asking what kind of response the other wants

Conditional love and holding the other to ransom - Responsibility fascism

Too much expectation vs having clear standards

- Workshops, courses and 1:1 coaching at ⁠⁠Positively-Mindful.com: ⁠⁠ by Neil Morbey

- Courses and other offerings at ⁠⁠jamiecatto.com ⁠⁠by Jamie Catto

Welcome to The Gentle Village, a place for us to connect, knowing we don't have to do it all alone. A safe space to explore Relationships. Vulnerabilities, Curiosities, Courage and a deeper connection with Life and Love in 2024

In this podcast, ⁠⁠⁠Jamie Catto (⁠⁠⁠Musician, Film-maker and author of Insanely Gifted) and⁠⁠⁠ Neil Morbey ⁠⁠⁠(Mindfulness and Relationship Coach, Intimacy and Kink Workshop Facilitator) talk about topics of relationships with a focus on attachment, polyamory, monogamy, vulnerability, basic needs, boundaries, trauma and support.

If you'd like us to discuss something please send questions to ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ and [email protected]

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