Gentlemen’ s Guide to Excellence

In this episode we talk about the pool of available relationship candidates through a lens or perspective called "10-80-10" that I am borrowing from an entirely unrelated discipline - police work and law enforcement. That comparison might sounds nuts, but hear me out. I think looking at the dating and relationship problem domain through different lenses can be helpful and informative. It can help you make any needed adjustments to your attitude and approach to meeting someone special. And it can help you think about what you have observed in your own experience with dating, and what is available out there.

Struggling to stay informed because of disinformation, clickbait, fake news and liars? Your hero hears you. I've got you covered in this week's video and podcast.

This is the first in a self-improvement series that we will do as part of this podcast (and Youtube channel). Excellence, in every sense of the term, is part of the foundation of our whole approach to being the best man that you can be, in order to be - among many other things - as attractive and appealing to women as possible. You work on your personal excellence every day, and one of the several outcomes that flow from that is increased confidence, that increased confidence is something you automatically project in how you walk, how you talk, how you conduct yourself — your “swagger”. You’ll see that will draw people to you as you keep improving day by day, and year by year. They’ll feel your ever-increasing positive energy, they’ll feel drawn in, and want to be a part of your world.

In this episode, we drill into a rather difficult problem - effective ways people can stay informed as a citizen. Being informed and smart is cool and part of your continuous improvement and drive toward excellence.

BACKGROUND: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.

Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!

Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides 

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Are you trapped in the "friend zone" and looking for options? In this episode we take a look at the whole friend zone concept using the framework and perspectives of the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting book.

Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/).

Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.

Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!

Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides 

Wasting people’s time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.    

The Hero Instinct.  What is it?  Where did the idea come from?  And it is something useful for you?

Integrity.  We all have an intuitive sense of what the word integrity means, but we might not agree on precisely what it is.  I think it will be illuminating to do so, so today we will dig into the topic of integrity.

Friendship 101.  Are you a good friend?  Are you good friend material?  Do you have the number of friends you want, or no friends at all, or too many friends   If you want to be a better friend, then this is the episode for you.

Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.

Today I want to talk about knowing where to look.  Knowing where to look.  And I don’t mean physically where do you find women in general, that’s mostly everywhere in the planet.  I mean where do you look at a person to see the real them.  

Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.

Working the system. One of the lessons I have thoroughly learned in life is about the benefits of what I call "working the system".  The world is a tough, competitive place, and you need to give yourself as much advantage and leverage as you can sometimes.  We’ll take a look at what I mean by working the system in this week’s episode.