Gentlemen’ s Guide to Excellence

Today we are going continue the deep dive we began in the last episode into the ethics of flirting, meeting great women,  and dating.  We are going to look into how to think about several aspects and problem areas that you are likely to encounter as you progress through your journey through the wonderful, fun and rewarding world of flirting, dating, and relationships.

What does it mean exactly when someone says they are “living their best life”?  Best life?  If that is such a thing, how do you go from where you are today to this best life?

Your temper.  This week I want to talk about the very practical subject of how to deal with getting angry, or losing your temper. Unfortunately, daily life is filled with opportunities for this to happen, and I want to share how I think about this topic and deal with it myself.

In this week’s episode, we talk about something that happened recently that might have been a missed opportunity, something that had great potential for millions of young people, and people of all ages around the world, but it just didn’t get any traction.

In this week’s episode, we talk about the social media platform TikTok.  I am testing TikTok to see if there are any free marketing opportunities there for me that might help me move my stuff for sale, and I while I was checking out everything I started to wonder if TikTok might be useful for you guys.  So today I want to take you through what I found out about TikTok, and run through what I feel are some of its good and bad points, relevant to our topic of flirting and meeting with and connecting with great ladies out there.

The 7-year itch.  What does that mean, and is it real?  Is your relationship or marriage really doomed after 7 years?  Will it start into some sort of decline?

Negativity.  There’s an abundance of it out in the world right now and it is hard to avoid.    You can’t just ignore negativity, or wish it away.  So, what are you supposed to do to contain its impacts on your life.   

Tonality.  How you say things is at least as important as what you say in many cases.  In this week’s episode, we’ll go into what tonality is, talk about several general-purpose best practices, and then examine how they might apply to meeting new women, dating, and relationships.

The world can be a strange place.  People can behave oddly and in ways not aligned with our principles and beliefs from the book.  Not everyone will be happy with your success.  Not everyone wants to see you stack wins every day. Not everyone wants to see your continuous improvement, and your steady progress toward achieving your goals.  Not everyone wants to see how at ease you are with women, and how much fun they have with you and how women generally like your whole approach and vibe.  In this episode, we dig into the subject of high-quality ways to deal with the jealousy and haters that might arise as you progress in life.  My goal in taking you through that is maybe how I think about handling these various situations might save you trouble and aggravation in your own lives.