GenX Women Building Confidence and Pimp Slapping Self Doubt

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Happy Season or not so happy season, but here we are.

I'm sure you have guessed i'm quite fortunate to be a person who enjoys this time of the year. What I loved as a child hasn't really changed. I loved getting together with family. The toys were great, but there was nothing greater than laughing with my family. My heart aches a little when I hear folks say Christmas is for kids. I think they have missed the heartbeat of it all. Its a time for community love and celebration. It's a time to love yourself and others.

I believe in God, I believe in angels and I believe that they are all active and living through our day to day lives. Some of you may clutch your pearls, heck I too have done so on occasion, but this time felt different.

What are you talking about Senetra? Well, I am talking about the meaningful conversation I had with an Angel Reader named Nami. I didn't seek him out and he didn't seek me out and maybe that's why I felt so comfortable with Nami. I had no expectations of what I was going to be told. Ok back up I was a little nervous. I am really big on not messing with mess that I am not supposed to, but this felt different.

Nami a wonderful man with a great heart and wonderful energy, sat me down and we talked about the Angels in my life, that guide and cheer me on everyday.

Sit back and enjoy my conversation with Nami, an Angel Reader.

A 9 year old who for the last nine years I have lovingly called Lynn Bear, with all the fire and seriousness of an old sage woman, proclaimed that she was not going to grow up, she will figure out a way to stay a child. Further, she did not want to make decisions. The kid in me quietly shouted and cried out with her damn right kiddo, because this Adulting is for the birds.

Adulting was fresh and new in my 20s, it had the new car smell and came with new car fancy features. 30s and 40s were par for the course BUT baby let me tell you 50 will make you question why you ever wanted to be an adult. From being pre diabetic to having to really train yourself how to get up off the floor when you have sat down without touching anything. If you are over 50 right now I double dog dare you to try it, but make sure somebody is home when you do.

This interview is for those who have hit a rut. Those who still have dreams bubbling up in side them and are in search of that coach that Life Coach, that can guide and train them into a fulfilling season.

I had the pleasure of sitting down and speaking with a successful life coach, Candice the creator of Infinite Lucid Living. Make sure you check her out as well. You won't regret it.

In this show you will learn

- What a life coach is?

- The benefits of a life coach?

- What you should think about if you want to be a life coach.

- And so much MORE!

*As well as a brief introduction to my daughter's lizard Nyx!

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I'm technically a church girl.  But the Pandemic really changed my CHURCH WORLD.  I didn't lose my faith, honestly I feel like my faith and perspective on religion grew.  Of course when I told some people I didn't know if I would ever go to a church again, they were shook, for fear that maybe I would be a lost soul.  I did eventually go back inside a church after the restrictions were lifted.  But there is one thing that didn't change though.  I do not like going to Women's Conferences!  You can boo or yell, or even tell me about the one that changed your life and I will not doubt that it did.  But for me I always have this weird expectation of going in and coming out renewed.  I've never had that experience.  I usually come out making a mental promise to myself that I will not buy a ticket for another one!

So when I came across this book and read the title.  I felt I had met my tribe.

Instead what I got was a revelation and a lot of wisdom from Pastor TJ Austin.  The author of "Banned From The Women's Conference"

The Link to the look is below:

https://www.amazon.com/Banned-Womens-Conference-TJ-Austin/dp/B08S2SNKJQ/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1677462927&sr=8-1

And there is more TJ Austin is a two time winner of the Charlotte 

You can also find 

https://www.facebook.com/ministertbreeze/

He's just not that into you or the friendzone.

They both stink and can really put you in a position of doubting yourself and your ability to ever have a successful relationship.  I think everyone can relate.  The guy who is so fine and so wonderful and clearly meant for you, well he doesn't seem to be that in to you.  Immediately we go right to our image and think maybe its our appearance... Or maybe he's just out of my league.  I've had all these thoughts.

I had to do some soul searching after getting a DM or is it an IM ... Oh the challenges of being GenX and remembering all the knew lingo. 

 Anyway the message was Why the Guys you Want Don't Want You.  I know ouch right, but if I'm ever going to be in a healthy relationship, I've got to be willing to learn the rules of the game right?

Suicide is becoming too common a word in our News!

I remember when I was in high school one of my friends tried to commit suicide.  My mind couldn't wrap around the concept, even in all the emotions of being a teenager I couldn't grasp the concept of not wanting to live anymore.  In my twenties there was a co-worker who left work went home drove into his garage shut the door and let the car run, until he died.  I regret that I can't remember his name now.  I do remember his face and the one time I made him smile as he watched me try to learn how to shoot rubber bands at my other co-workers.  As time marches on so have the number of suicides from Robin Williams to the recent death of Stephen tWitch Boss the list has seemed to pick up speed.  I have no idea why and I don't even dare try to find anything to blame, because on the other side of suicide is a million unanswered questions.

I have heard it said that some of the happiest people are the saddest.  Why am i reposting this interview now 4 days before Christmas?  Well, it's important for the one person out there to know:

1. Find the one that you don't have to fake being happy with and pour out your heart...Not for an answer or even a solution just to release some of that negativity that's built up.

2. Second for the one who will listen... Just listen without judgement or solutions.

3.  Mental health is not a joke or a meme constantly check in on yourself and others. 

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