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Summary
In this episode of 'Retrieving Sanity', host Keegan Read engages with clinical counselor Philip Quinones, who shares his journey into the field of psychology and counseling. They discuss the importance of self-worth, the struggles of mental health, and the resilience needed to navigate life's challenges. Philip emphasizes the significance of understanding human behavior, the nature of good and evil, and the stages of change in personal development. The conversation highlights the necessity of operating within negative feelings and the process of change in therapy. In this conversation, Phillip Quinones and Keegan Read explore the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of accountability, vulnerability, and self-awareness. They discuss the need for individuals to invest in their relationships, navigate their feelings, and overcome negative self-talk. The dialogue also touches on the significance of understanding attachment styles and the role of self-validation in fostering healthy connections. The episode concludes with a game segment, 'Toolbox or Trap,' where they evaluate common mental health practices.
Takeaways
Philip Quinones emphasizes the importance of self-worth and how it can be influenced by societal expectations.
Dysthymia, a mild form of depression, can affect one's perspective on life and relationships.
Resilience is key to navigating life's challenges and understanding that experiences shape us.
Human behavior is complex, and understanding it requires empathy and objectivity.
The nature of good and evil is subjective and often tied to survival instincts.
Self-talk plays a crucial role in personal development and mental health.
Change is a process that requires self-reflection and motivation from within.
Negative feelings are a natural part of life and should not be avoided.
Therapy is about processing change and finding personal solutions.
Understanding the stages of change can help individuals navigate their personal growth. Relationships require investment and accountability.
Feelings should not dictate actions in relationships.
Understanding one's attachment style is crucial for relationship success.
Self-validation is key to overcoming negative self-talk.
Vulnerability fosters deeper connections in relationships.
It's important to serve your partner in a relationship.
Navigating feelings in dating requires patience and understanding.
People change, and relationships should evolve accordingly.
Choosing battles wisely can enhance relationship dynamics.
Communication is essential for resolving conflicts in relationships.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Mental Health and Healing
00:27 Philip's Journey into Psychology
04:23 Struggles with Self-Worth and Dysthymia
09:17 Transformative Life Experiences
14:22 Understanding Human Behavior and Choices
20:12 The Nature of Good and Evil
21:38 Survival Instincts vs. Moral Consciousness
24:09 Navigating Change and Self-Reflection
27:00 Stages of Change in Personal Development
28:46 Understanding Feelings and Emotional Responses
31:25 Embracing Negative Feelings in Life
36:43 Dating Dynamics and Self-Perception
41:12 Accountability in Relationships
42:25 Understanding Modern Dating Dynamics
44:17 The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships
45:12 The Concept of Relationships as Continuous Discovery
48:10 The Role of Self-Validation in Relationships
50:12 Toolbox or Trap: Navigating Mental Health Practices
01:01:02 Building Trust and Understanding Attachment Styles
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#mentalhealthpodcast #retrievingsanity #dating #relationships #innerwork #patterns #pain #disruption #holistic #selfimage #selfworth #selfbelief
Call 988 if you are experiencing ANY mental crisis!
Be sure to check out Retrievingsanity.com for all past guest resources!
Want to be a guest on Retrieving Sanity: A Mental Health Podcast? Send Keegan Read a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/retrievingsanitypodcast
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Summary
In this episode of 'Retrieving Sanity', host Keegan Read engages with clinical counselor Philip Quinones, who shares his journey into the field of psychology and counseling. They discuss the importance of self-worth, the struggles of mental health, and the resilience needed to navigate life's challenges. Philip emphasizes the significance of understanding human behavior, the nature of good and evil, and the stages of change in personal development. The conversation highlights the necessity of operating within negative feelings and the process of change in therapy. In this conversation, Phillip Quinones and Keegan Read explore the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of accountability, vulnerability, and self-awareness. They discuss the need for individuals to invest in their relationships, navigate their feelings, and overcome negative self-talk. The dialogue also touches on the significance of understanding attachment styles and the role of self-validation in fostering healthy connections. The episode concludes with a game segment, 'Toolbox or Trap,' where they evaluate common mental health practices.
Takeaways
Philip Quinones emphasizes the importance of self-worth and how it can be influenced by societal expectations.
Dysthymia, a mild form of depression, can affect one's perspective on life and relationships.
Resilience is key to navigating life's challenges and understanding that experiences shape us.
Human behavior is complex, and understanding it requires empathy and objectivity.
The nature of good and evil is subjective and often tied to survival instincts.
Self-talk plays a crucial role in personal development and mental health.
Change is a process that requires self-reflection and motivation from within.
Negative feelings are a natural part of life and should not be avoided.
Therapy is about processing change and finding personal solutions.
Understanding the stages of change can help individuals navigate their personal growth. Relationships require investment and accountability.
Feelings should not dictate actions in relationships.
Understanding one's attachment style is crucial for relationship success.
Self-validation is key to overcoming negative self-talk.
Vulnerability fosters deeper connections in relationships.
It's important to serve your partner in a relationship.
Navigating feelings in dating requires patience and understanding.
People change, and relationships should evolve accordingly.
Choosing battles wisely can enhance relationship dynamics.
Communication is essential for resolving conflicts in relationships.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Mental Health and Healing
00:27 Philip's Journey into Psychology
04:23 Struggles with Self-Worth and Dysthymia
09:17 Transformative Life Experiences
14:22 Understanding Human Behavior and Choices
20:12 The Nature of Good and Evil
21:38 Survival Instincts vs. Moral Consciousness
24:09 Navigating Change and Self-Reflection
27:00 Stages of Change in Personal Development
28:46 Understanding Feelings and Emotional Responses
31:25 Embracing Negative Feelings in Life
36:43 Dating Dynamics and Self-Perception
41:12 Accountability in Relationships
42:25 Understanding Modern Dating Dynamics
44:17 The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships
45:12 The Concept of Relationships as Continuous Discovery
48:10 The Role of Self-Validation in Relationships
50:12 Toolbox or Trap: Navigating Mental Health Practices
01:01:02 Building Trust and Understanding Attachment Styles
Music: Believe In You by tubebackr is licensed under a Creative Commons License.
https://www.creativecommons.org/licen...
/ tubebackr
Support by RFM - NCM: https://bit.ly/44xI0TT
Music: Addictions by Jay Someday is licensed under a Creative Commons License.
https://creativecommons.org/licenses/...
Download / Stream: https://hypeddit.com/jaysomeday/addic...
Support by RFM - NCM: • Addictions - Jay Someday | @RFM_NCM
Coffee Lofi
#mentalhealthpodcast #retrievingsanity #dating #relationships #innerwork #patterns #pain #disruption #holistic #selfimage #selfworth #selfbelief
Call 988 if you are experiencing ANY mental crisis!
Be sure to check out Retrievingsanity.com for all past guest resources!
Want to be a guest on Retrieving Sanity: A Mental Health Podcast? Send Keegan Read a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/retrievingsanitypodcast