In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad with special guest Gabe Sherman, former assistant to the NASA director, dive into the enduring controversy surrounding the moon landing and what it reveals about our broader cultural tensions. The conversation unpacks how social media amplifies misinformation, shaping what people believe—and why. Brayn and the hosts explore how personal experience powerfully influences faith and conviction, drawing parallels between public skepticism and private spiritual doubt.

They also discuss the renewed global space race and its implications for national pride, using it as a springboard to reflect on leadership, integrity, and the importance of faith-rooted guidance. Throughout the episode, the speakers emphasize that faith is not merely an individual pursuit but a communal journey that flourishes through honest dialogue, transparency, and accountability.

The discussion highlights the value of confronting personal challenges head-on, encouraging listeners—especially men—not to shy away from vulnerability for fear of appearing weak. The episode closes with a reminder that ministry is not limited to formal roles; it is an expectation and calling for everyone seeking to live out their faith with authenticity.

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In Episode 29, Bryan, Kellen and Thad are honored to welcome Pastor Paul Daugherty, Lead Pastor of Victory Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Paul’s transparency, heart for people, and powerful faith set the stage for a deeply meaningful conversation.

 Paul shares how his upbringing in a ministry family shaped his understanding of leadership and purpose. He opens up about the moment he realized he would eventually step into pastoral leadership, following in the footsteps of his parents. 

One of the most memorable stories Paul shares is about his looking out of a bridge one night thinking no one would miss him and things would be better without him to being on a roof top of the church years later being called to keep others from feeling that same way. Paul talks about how God can use even the messy, imperfect parts of our lives to bring about hope and healing.  Emphasizing that leading isn’t about being the “face” of a ministry but about building a healthy team around you. He encourages emerging leaders to lean into authenticity, humility, and service. 

Pastor Paul hopes for the next generation: to live boldly, lead humbly, and carry a legacy of faith and service.

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This episode centers on a raw, honest conversation about men, affirmation, and the emotional wiring that often goes unspoken. The Bryan, Kellen and Thad break down why so many men rank words of affirmation at the top of their love-language list—not because they need encouragement to take action, but because they crave recognition after doing what they were already designed to do.

Men are internally wired to “conquer.” Men don’t need to be told to work hard, provide, protect, or push forward. That drive comes built in. Yet they still long to hear “I’m proud of you” and “I see what you did.” That desire doesn’t make them weak it reveals a deep relational design. 

The 300 analogies for approval matters highlight the moment in 300 when King Leonidas looks to the queen for a subtle nod before acting. Even a revered warrior, feared and respected by all, still craves the approval of the one person who truly knows him. Men, by nature, want to take action but they want their partner “in it with them.”

When affirmation is missing, resentment grows. Men will still work, still fight, still provide. But without words of affirmation from the person they are doing life with, what once felt purposeful begins to feel empty. Over time, lack of encouragement creates emotional hollowness and resentment, even toward the very responsibilities they were designed to carry.

The relational weight women often don’t see is how powerful their words are. Encouragement isn’t about ego it is fuel. A simple “I notice you” can carry a man through enormous responsibility, stress, and expectation.

Affirmation begins in childhood with children especially boys naturally looking for approval. When that approval is inconsistent or absent growing up, it shapes the adult love languages they crave most. Many men are still trying to receive words they never heard as boys.

Men need partnership, not perfection. A woman doesn’t have to provide, protect, or carry the load. She brings value by offering belief, confidence, and partnership joining him in the mission instead of adding weight to it.

Men are built to carry heavy loads, compete, and provide. But even strong, driven, masculine men need recognition from the person closest to them. It’s not about validation for the job—it’s about relational connection.

Affirmation doesn’t create the man; it strengthens him.

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In this episode with special guest Rubens Cunha... Bryan, Kellen and Thad dive into spirituality, personal growth, and the realities of modern Christianity. The conversation challenges men to reflect on what true faith and authenticity look like in today’s world. Through stories of life-changing travel and spiritual encounters, Rubens highlights how personal experiences can reshape beliefs and strengthen purpose.

Listeners are encouraged to face their spiritual battles head-on, remain consistent in their faith, and embrace the uncomfortable conversations that lead to real growth. The discussion also critiques the lack of authenticity often found in modern Christian practices, calling men to pursue a more genuine, personal relationship with God.

The episode closes with a heartfelt prayer for peace and guidance reminding every man that the journey of faith is unique, powerful, and worth walking with courage and conviction.

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 This episode with Bryan, Kellen, and Thad dives deep with special guest Sean Copeland, former Oklahoma Secretary of Commerce and founder of 94X Movement, exploring themes that hit home for men—insight, growth, connection, and ambition. It’s about recognizing that there’s always music playing, even if you can’t always hear it reminding us that value and opportunity exist in every moment. Gratitude takes center stage, proving that acknowledgment and appreciation aren’t signs of weakness but keys to stronger relationships and authentic leadership. 

The takeaways are clear in real engagement builds trust, reflection sharpens your edge, and personal experiences fuel both personal and professional success. Future goals drive present action, and communication done with purpose turns good conversations into powerful connections. In the end, it’s a reminder that the smartest moves in business and life come from staying grounded, grateful, and fully engaged. 

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In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad get real about what men are up against in today’s world of distance learning, endless screen time, and fake online connection. It’s time to stop hiding behind devices and start showing up—in our families, our churches, and our communities. The guys break down how modern teaching methods, social media, and youth engagement are shaping how men lead, and what it really means to be present.

This isn’t about perfection—it’s about purpose. It’s about men stepping up, leading with strength and honesty, and being the ones who build real relationships that push others forward. Whether you’re a pastor, a dad, a mentor, or just a guy trying to grow, this episode reminds you that spiritual growth starts with showing up and staying consistent.

 Real Talk .....

• Distance learning and screen time are killing real-world connection—step in and lead your kids through it.
• Building solid relationships is the difference between leading and losing.
• Pastors—if you’re not present, you’re not leading.
• Spiritual growth takes accountability, not comfort.
• Social media is a tool—use it with purpose, not pride.
• Adapt how you teach and mentor; today’s young men need relevance and truth.
• The church has to get real if it wants men to show up.
• The Bible isn’t optional—it’s the foundation for strong, grounded leadership.
• Community engagement isn’t charity—it’s brotherhood in action.

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What happens when redemption, entrepreneurship, and leadership collide behind prison walls? Bryan, Kellen and Thad sit in an unforgettable episode spotlighting how Oklahoma Governor Kevin Stitt lent his influence to a powerful moment of transformation — when incarcerated men in the 1440 Promise program stepped into a “Shark Tank”-style pitch event to present business plans and declare their readiness to reenter society with strength and dignity.

In this episode:

• You’ll hear the origin story of 1440 Promise, a Christ-centered ministry helping men in prison discover purpose, develop life skills, and rebuild identity.
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• We’ll reveal how Gov. Stitt showed up — as a judge, sponsor, or moral witness — bringing attention and legitimacy to this bold experiment in rehabilitation.
• Listen to the voices of the men: their hopes, stakes, and strategies as they pitch real business ideas in front of real decision-makers. 
• We explore the tension of faith plus entrepreneurship, the risks they faced in stepping into the spotlight, and the mission of giving more than second chances — giving equipped, grounded new leaders.
•  The governor touches on hot topics shaping Oklahoma today — from strengthening the school system and supporting local agriculture (including planting vegetables and community gardens) to promoting innovative ideas that empower communities statewide. 

Tune in if you believe transformation is more than redemption — it’s the work we build.

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 In this episode, Bryan, Kellen, and Thad are joined by a special guest — the first female on the podcast, Debra Wimpee, Mayor of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. Together, they dive deep into the real-world dynamics of modern leadership, personal image, and community influence through conversations that challenge perspectives and inspire action. 

We start at the gym, exploring how attire draws attention from both men and women, and the unspoken societal expectations placed on women in public spaces. From there, the discussion shifts to leadership, using the story of a female mayor to highlight the power of being approachable, relatable, and truly connected to the people you serve.

The conversation expands to address the unique challenges veterans face and the responsibility leaders have to honor and support them. We examine the delicate balance between personal appearance and professional presence, especially in a world where social media can shape public perception in seconds.

Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of intention—behind our actions, our image, and our leadership. Grace and compassion emerge as essential traits for anyone stepping into positions of influence.

The episode closes on a powerful note: the joy and fulfillment that comes from serving others and making a lasting positive impact in your community.

👉 Tune in for honest conversation, practical insights, and thought-provoking perspectives on what it truly means to lead with purpose in today’s world.

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This discussion with Bryan, Kellen and Thad with special guest Sheriff Vic Regalado pulling no punches. It takes on the brutal truth that we’ve grown numb to violence and even celebrate it like entertainment. It calls out public figures who shape morality—sometimes for the worse—and exposes how social media has become a weapon against truth. But it doesn’t stop there. Real stories of men transformed by faith show how brokenness can be turned into strength. We dive into innovative prison reform, the power of knowing who you are, and the brotherhood found in real community. At its core, this is about fighting for humanity, leading with courage, and standing unashamed in your faith in a world that’s losing its grip on what matters.

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 In this episode, we cut the fluff and get real about what it takes to push through life’s toughest hits. Men aren’t meant to go it alone—brotherhood and mentorship are game-changers. When you’ve got the right guys in your corner, you find strength, guidance, and grit to fight back harder. We share raw stories of resilience and what happens when iron truly sharpens iron. Tune in and see how the right tribe can fuel your growth, healing, and next level. 

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