Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

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Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed episodes

  • 39. To Divorce or Not to Divorce, That is the Question (Guest: Kim Bowen)

    Deciding whether or not to get divorced is one of the hardest decisions you can make. Kim Bowen, the founder of The Marriage Place, teaches us how to figure out if you should get divorced or whether you should just take your marriage in a new direction.

    We discuss:

    - Figuring out if marriage is the right move
    - Referring out clients to collaborative divorce
    - Working through the past, present, and future
    - Doing the hard work of looking inward
    - Discernment therapy
    - Therapy v. Coaching
    - Narcissism
    - The options that people have in counseling
    - Marriage saving therapy
    - The need for structure in discernment therapy
    - Not deciding about your future
    - Unrealistic reasons to want a divorce
    - Impact of social media on marriage
    - How porn impacts marriage
    - Compatibility
    ...AND SO MUCH MORE...

    To learn more about Kim, visit themarriageplace.com.

    46 min
  • 37. The Divorce Story of James: How Divorce Can Change Your Life For the Better (Guest: James Bastian)

    Divorce does not have to be all bad. There are many divorces that open up your eyes to new possibilities and a life you never considered before. In this episode, we talk to James Bastian about his divorce and co-parenting with his ex in the years since the divorce process.

    We discuss:

    - Signs that a marriage is on the rocks
    - Should you regret a marriage that didn't work?
    - Hurtful comments during divorce
    - Being guided by an attorney during a divorce
    - Dual citizenship and marriage with children
    - End of marriage does not make you a failure
    - How does Mormonism impact marriage and divorce
    - Perceptions of others in divorce and how to ignore the noise
    - Processing being told that the marriage is over
    - Red flags that the divorce is on the rocks
    - How the divorce process can get nasty and heated
    - Documents during divorce can be very hurtful
    - You can choose whether you want an amicable divorce or War of the Roses
    - The high cost of fighting in divorce (and afterward)
    - Every day you choose how to view the world post-divorce

    Find out more about us at www.thedivorceshield.com 

    1 hr 1 min
  • 36. Starting Over After Divorce (Guest: Allyson Fusella)

    Divorce is never easy. You are destroying the vows you took at your wedding to love, honor, and cherish your spouse forever. After divorce, many question themselves, the choices they made, their value, their needs, and their worthiness. Join Allyson Fusella as she takes us through the choices you can make after divorce.

    We discuss:

    - Choosing to face your fears
    - Not ignoring or denying your feelings surrounding your fears
    - Choosing to be grateful for the lessons from your divorce
    - You control how many times you repeat the same unhealthy behavior
    - Choosing to forgive what you can't forget
    - The importance of worthiness
    - Learning how to learn who you are and your own inner beauty
    - Choosing to dream again

    To find out more about Allyson, visit foundationscoach.com

    To schedule a FREE Discovery Call with Divorce Shield, visit divorceshield.as.me

    55 min
  • 35. How Men Can Sabotage Their Custody Case (Guests: Adelola Dow, Esq., and Stephanie Hunnell, Esq.)

    What do men need to know about approaching a custody dispute? Turns out, there is a lot! Join my guests Adelola Dow (aka Ade) and Stephanie Hunnell as we discuss this complicated topic. They are both divorce attorneys and the co-hosts of the "Undoing I Do with Stephanie and Ade" Facebook Show. 

    In this show, we discuss:

    - What to look for in hiring an attorney
    - Setting expectations for how a custody case will turn out at the beginning of a case
    - Dos and Don'ts of Communication with your attorney
    - How courts are proceeding in the age of ZOOM
    - Make sure your attorneys isn't a dinosaur when it comes to technology
    - Gender bias in custody cases
    - Using custody positions as leverage in the financial part of the divorce
    - How women feel about men getting more custody
    - Importance of getting involved in your children's lives
    - Don't lie or withhold information from your attorney!
    - How drugs and alcohol impact custody
    - Making arguments in divorce that are not consistent with how you acted during the marriage
    - The importance of calendaring
    - Stay off social media when you start a divorce
    - Take the emotion out of your divorce
    ...AND SO MUCH MORE...

    You can learn more about Ade at adelolalaw.com, and more about Stephanie at hunnelllaw.com.
    To join the Divorce Shield TRIBE, a free Men's Divorce Support Community, go to www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/tribesignup

    1 hr 1 min
  • 34. The Cultural Issues in Divorce that Men NEED TO KNOW! (Guest: Stephanie Tang, Esq.)

    Divorce is hard. Add cultural issues into the legal process, and divorce is even more difficult. Come find out from our guest Stephanie Tang, Esq., a divorce attorney from Chicago, how men can navigate cultural issues in divorce.  

    We discuss:

    - Approaching divorce with the right mindset
    - Hiring the right attorney
    - How different cultures approach divorce
    - Educating your attorney on your culture
    - Mistakes people make in settling divorce
    - How the court approaches divorce with different cultures
    ...AND MUCH MORE  

    You can learn more about Stephanie at https://kogutwilson.com/attorney_profiles/stephanie-tang/

    ​To schedule a Discovery Call to learn how Divorce Coaching can help you plan for and navigate divorce, click here: https://divorceshield.as.me/

    56 min
  • 33. Getting Your Sexual Groove Back After Divorce (Guest: Beverly Perryman)

    Sex. What a loaded word! What mistakes in intimacy lead to divorce? How can you correct them for your next relationship? Join Certified Sexologist Beverly Perryman as we discuss: 

    - What is a sexologist?

    - How to build intimacy
    - Special room just for you and your spouse
    - The issues that people have with sex and intimacy
    - How to help people rekindle the flame
    - How working with a sex coach can help you
    - Sex is not a bad word that you need to be ashamed of
    - Communication is the top killer of sex
    - How to get your groove back in the next relationship.
    .....AND MUCH MORE  

    You can learn more about Beverly at www.spiceislandgirl.com 

    You can learn more about Divorce Shield and our FREE Men's Divorce Support Community at www.thedivorceshield.com

    53 min
  • 32. Divorcing a Narcissistic Woman: A Real Divorce Story (Guest: The Dadvocate)

    There are many reasons why people get divorced. At its core, unhappiness leads people to make the decision to end a marriage. Often, we later look back at our marriage and realize there were many signs that it was not a healthy relationship. It is always easy to Monday-Morning-QB. Join our guest Dadvocate (he prefers to not have his real name public as he has young children), as we discuss:

    - Deciding when to leave a marriage

    - Living with a narcissist
    - Co-Parenting after divorce
    - Settling your custody dispute
    - The fight for your children never ends
    - The inequity of the family court system
    - Looking back at signs the marriage should have ended sooner
    - Gaslighting and its impact on marriage and children
    - How love bombing can make you fall for a narcissist before you know who they are
    ....AND SO MUCH MORE.....

    For more information about our guest, check out dadvocate.co.uk

    To join our free Facebook community for men thinking about or going through divorce, check out facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe

    54 min
  • 31. Mistakes that Men Make During Divorce (Guest: Christina Previte, Esq.)

    Join our guest Christina Previte, Esq., as we discuss the common mistakes that men make when going through a divorce. 

    We discuss:

    - Making sure you get an attorney that understands your goals
    - You do not have to go directly to court when you start a divorce
    - Tips on hiring an attorney
    - Keeping things civil with your wife
    - Make sure your attorney is managing your EXPECTATIONS!
    - Communication with your wife during a divorce is good
    - Making sure you have healthy communication with your wife that does not turn into a domestic violence situation
    - The use of audio recordings in divorce
    - Using the children as a sounding board for your divorce
    - Everything to write, do or so is potential evidence
    - Get a real therapist
    - Hiding assets
    - Whether you must follow Order
    .....AND SO MUCH MORE.  

    If you want more information about us, visit www.thedivorceshield.com 

    If you want more information about Christina, visit her on Instagram @theprev 

    For more information about the law firm, visit centraljerseyfamilylaw.com

    46 min
  • 30. Guys....Make a DECISION!

    Is Divorce on the horizon? No one wants to get divorced. But, when that situation becomes a reality in your life, you need to make a decision. Do not be paralyzed. In this episode, we go into detail about how you make the decision to get divorced, and what your first step should be.

    Want to join our free divorce support community called Divorce Shield TRIBE? Check out www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/tribe

    19 min

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This is a podcast for MEN who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or are recovering from divorce. You will get advice from experts and hear inspirational stories of men who have survived divorce.