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Some people swear by checklist, while others cry, "Abandon yee checklist, and go with the flow." I recently noticed the my list of urgent tasks had grown a bit longer than I was comfortable with. I had also given in to chilling with a little t.v. before bed the night before. In fact, though I was no longer watching YouTube videos before bed (should you be asleep right now), I was starting to lean into the whole, "I deserve a break, I should be able to watch one or two shows." So as proud as I was of finishing the recording of 3 different on demand programs in a 3 month period, 2 of them still needed some small edits and that was on top of the other 15 things that need to be done this week. So, am I good stewart of my time, or just completely delusional? Am I over doing it or just looking for an excuse to stay in a constant state of stress.

Well, let's just say, this video started one way, then quickly went in a different direction. So how about you? Have you done your first quarter review yet?

Ever notice how in the U.S. we praise celebrities for posing on the red carpet and "slaying," how we tell friends they look "hot," but the moment those same people say, "I look good," the general consensus is that is a big no-no. Seriously, unless you identify as a member of a marginalized group that isn't conventionally attractive, then you are vain for even daring to utter your own perceived value. But what if being just a little bit more vain could make you happier? Whether you're running your own business or just running around at work for someone else, vanity may be the necessary evil you didn't know you needed, so let's talk about it.

Heads Up! This episode was originally released on YouTube June 9th, 2024

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Why is it that podcast I used to enjoy, seem to slowly be taken over by interviews with people in their 20's and 30's talking about how they've become millionaires doing  and that it's so simple even your non tech savvy grandpa can do it. In fact, with some go-getter, don't stop attitude, you too can have your cake and eat it to. Or can you? Does living the good life, or at least a life where you aren't working on your business 24/7 only materialize if you are tech savvy, or in your 20's, or in your 30's or drink on the ability to grind, remember you why, and be hungry? I don't know, so let's talk about it.

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Seems like politicians and political commentators are flocking to the cameras to simply yell. It's a little strange seeing so many older people shouting about how the country is falling into disrepair because of their opponents wanton ways.  Maybe in your own life, you're feeling angry and like the only way that you can be heard is by shouting. Maybe all that shouting is making you angry. Maybe you're just feeling angry, so let's talk about it.

Heads Up! This episode was originally released on YouTube April 30th, 2025

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Every spring your declutter your closet and faithfully give to charity, but have you thought about really decluttering your life? What about your work? Do you have a drafts folder filled with unfinished thoughts? Does "unsubscribe" seem like something that is on your to-do list, but you never actually do it? Well, then this episode is for you.

Heads Up! This episode was originally released on YouTube March 23rd, 2024

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You knew things would be tough, you planned, and planned some more, but despite your best efforts, you've run out of gas, run out of steam, or just feel like you can't out run the rat race. If you are feeling exhausted despite doing all the "right" things, then know that you're not alone. So let's talk about it.

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You're working hard, but it seems with every dollar earned, another two dollars are needed. It can be frustrating especially if you feel that you've put off having fun, going out, travel, starting a family, dating, getting married, or just getting a massage. If you are feeling exhausted from chasing dollars, then know that I completely understand. So let's talk about it.

Heads Up! This episode was originally released on YouTube May 17th, 2025

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Despite all of the modern conveniences associated with technology, it seems we are all fighting something: fighting for the right to privacy, fighting to keep our jobs, fighting for safe schools, fighting to lose weight, fighting to be heard, fighting for a marriage, fighting the urge to scroll more, fighting to find time for peace and quiet-- with all of this fighting, it's no wonder people are tired. I for one, find myself fighting to keep fighting at times and just not give up. Chances are, you've felt the same way. So, let's talk about it.

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For decades, the self help sector has been telling those in western countries to set goals. Actually setting goals isn't enough, they need to be S.M.A.R.T. goals and the only way to achieve them isn't through multi-tasking, but rather the popular productivity hack of the week. But not many gurus talk about what to do once the goals have been reached. You've got the car, the house, maybe even the spouse, but now what? Maybe you don't have any of that but you are finally doing work that you enjoy, or maybe your goal was just to scroll less, and you've successfully reduced your weekly scroll time by 1 hour a day. Then what? Do you set a new goal? Was the goal too small to begin with? Let's get into it.

Heads Up! This episode was originally released on YouTube January 14,2025

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You did good. In fact, as a little reward, you should celebrate... but does celebration have to lead to more stress? Celebrate with a nice dinner, a vacation, a little shopping, or just taking the kids out for the day, all of these things can lead to stress. The dinner went on a credit card, it rained the whole vacation, the kids fought the entire car ride... so how about developing a reward system that actually reduces the probability for stress? Let's get into it.

Heads Up! This episode was originally released on YouTube December 10th, 2025

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