Getting Into The Swing Of Things

We were out of the swing of things for a year, but now we are back from our swinger hibernation! In this episode we tell you why, and where we go from here.

After four months of waiting for the stars to align to meet the right single guy, we finally met up with someone we clicked with. People talk about how finding a single guy in the lifestyle is easy. It is not! Unless you don't have standards.

After meeting new fun people at a meet and greet, we exchange numbers with some and end up having a super fun full swap a couple of days later. Best lesson from this experience, you don't have to be perfect as long as you're learning and having fucking fun.

In episode no. 7 we discussed how the lifestyle is making us realize there are different flavors of disappointment, and Mrs. Tequila has an epiphany about taking rejection personally, remembering lessons from the book The Four Agreements.

After our first swap-gone-wrong, we get back on the horse and start looking for a single guy for a MFM threesome party. We thought this would be easy to organize. Shockingly, it is not! We talk about online dating struggles and the inherent nature of The Lifestyle being full of flakes.

Things get deep and introspective in this episode as we process all of the feelings that Mrs. Tequila began to sort through after our first full swap. It got messy. We peel back the layers to understanding complicated feelings and how to get through the emotional roller coaster.