Have you ever thought, “if I get sober, maybe they’ll come back”? You’re not alone. In this episode, I unpack why getting sober for someone else - an ex, a spouse, a family member - puts your recovery on shaky ground. I share my own story of getting sober after a breakup, what I learned the hard way, and how choosing sobriety for myself changed everything. This episode is for anyone struggling to find their why in recovery.

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And you can now find me on YouTube @arthurinamsterdam. I’ll be posting about my life and adventures there and talk about being sober in a city that is known for excess and debauchery.