In this episode of What That Drink Cost Me, I explore why making sobriety your number one priority is essential for long-term recovery. From work and family obligations to busyness and burnout, many people in early sobriety struggle to keep recovery at the center of their lives. I break down what happens when sobriety slips down the priority list, how relapse often begins, and practical ways to protect your recovery even when life feels overwhelming. If you’re newly sober, sober curious, or struggling to stay consistent, this episode offers clarity, perspective, and actionable guidance.

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Dry January can be a powerful reset—but what happens when January ends? In this episode of What That Drink Cost Me, I explore why taking a month off from drinking isn’t enough if you suspect alcohol is a problem. I share my own experience with Dry January, why I went back to drinking on February 1, and what actually helps people stay sober long-term. If you’re sober curious, doing Dry January, or wondering what comes next after the month is over, this episode will help you think honestly about your relationship with alcohol and how to create a plan that lasts.

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How much does drinking really cost? In this episode of What That Drink Cost Me, I talk openly about the financial consequences of alcohol—both direct and indirect. From bar tabs, late-night food, and transportation costs to lost ambition, career stagnation, and delayed retirement savings, I unpack how drinking impacted my finances in ways I didn’t fully understand at the time. I also share how sobriety has helped me regain control, clarity, and a sense of financial peace—and ask you to reflect on what alcohol may be costing you.

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Have you ever thought, “if I get sober, maybe they’ll come back”? You’re not alone. In this episode, I unpack why getting sober for someone else - an ex, a spouse, a family member - puts your recovery on shaky ground. I share my own story of getting sober after a breakup, what I learned the hard way, and how choosing sobriety for myself changed everything. This episode is for anyone struggling to find their why in recovery.

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And you can now find me on YouTube @arthurinamsterdam. I’ll be posting about my life and adventures there and talk about being sober in a city that is known for excess and debauchery.

What happens when you’re a full-time caregiver, navigating Filipino family expectations, queer identity, and the decision to get sober without a program?

This week, I sit down with my friend Sam Hosea, a queer Filipino American caregiver who got sober without AA, rehab, or a 12-step program.

We talk about:

• The emotional and physical toll of caring for an aging parent

• Drinking culture in Filipino families and queer communities

• How Sam found sobriety without traditional recovery spaces

• The loneliness and liberation of “doing it your own way”

• What it means to hold boundaries while caregiving

If you’ve ever struggled with cultural expectations, burnout, caregiving, or getting sober without a program, this episode will speak directly to you.

Samuel Raphael Hosea (he/him) lives in Maryland in the home where he grew up. He is a full-time caregiver for his dad, who suffered a stroke in 2023. Prior to caregiving, Sam was a grad student researching the intersection of theology and capitalism. He lived in the San Francisco Bay Area for over 20 years, obtaining his Bachelor’s from Golden Gate University and then working primarily with the unhoused population in San Francisco’s Tenderloin neighborhood. His writing has appeared in multiple scholarly and literary journals. You can find him on instagram @ samuelraphaelhosea where he documents his caregiving journey.

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Holiday triggers are real — family stress, loneliness, expectations, parties, social pressure, memories, and drinking everywhere you look. In this episode, I break down why the holidays are especially tough for people in recovery and how to stay sober without feeling deprived.

You’ll hear my personal story of surviving my first sober Thanksgiving and learn practical strategies for getting through this season with confidence, peace, and support.

Perfect for anyone wanting a sober holiday guide, emotional grounding, or accountability.

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Sobriety can feel isolating — especially during the holidays and the start of a new year. In this episode, I break down the motivation and purpose behind my new 6-week sober coaching intensive. We’ll talk about why community matters in recovery, why resolutions often fail, and what kind of support people actually need to stay sober long-term. If you’re looking for sober community, accountability, or guidance as you enter a new year, this episode explains exactly how this program was designed to help.

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I just moved to Amsterdam—and the first week was an absolute disaster. No phone. No WiFi. No hot water. No furniture. Just me, a new city, and a whole lot of uncertainty. In this episode, I talk about what it’s like to stay sober during major life upheaval, why transitions can trigger old habits, and how sobriety becomes a life raft when everything else goes wrong.

If you’ve ever felt lost, overwhelmed, or unsure if you can stay sober through big change… this one’s for you.

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I’ll be making a huge announcement about a new coaching program on those platforms this week!

If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking a nap, this episode is for you. I dive into how hustle culture keeps us trapped in burnout — and how sobriety teaches a different way of living. Discover why slowing down isn’t weakness, how overworking mirrors addiction, and why real recovery starts with rest.

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Eight years sober — and every day still teaches me something new. In this special anniversary episode, I share the eight biggest lessons I’ve learned in my eight years of sobriety — from learning to set boundaries and face loneliness, to finding freedom and joy in everyday moments. Whether you’re newly sober, sober curious, or years into recovery, this one’s a heartfelt reminder of why staying sober is always worth it.

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