011: Getting the Girls with Austen Summer

We welcome our very first guest on the podcast! Dating coach Austen Summer joins us to talk about how having an epic physique impacts your game, some Tinder hacks, how to make moves as a shy guy, and why you want to say hi to the next person that hands you a burrito. Between Connor and Brandon lies a perfect pickup artist with the help of Austen’s tips. A lot of guys are confused about how to approach a woman, what to say or just how not to come off as a creep. He will show us how with some fun along the way.   Leave us a review and mention who you would love to see as a guest on our podcast. Then, send a screenshot of your review to [email protected] to enter to win a call with Connor.   Key Takeaways: [3:08] Stop! The first girl you see, give her the ACII right now: Attention, Context, Intent, Introduction. This gets your foot in the door for the initial chat. [6:47] The more you practice holding a conversation with an object of affection, the less you will fear saying the wrong thing or nothing at all. [8:17] In your mind, lower the bar of things you deem good enough to say and just say anything but say it in an engaging and playful way. [20:52] Fitness can impact your game and testosterone, bringing a level of power and energy attractive to women. [31:32] On a date don’t just stand in one place for 3 hours, move around so you can “seed then lead.” [37:10] Pickup is cool, and what is your plus one to add on to pick up? What do you have to offer for a good time or something exciting? [40:01] The very first step is just saying hi to a person out in the world. It can be a cashier, a random stranger at a coffee store, or someone next to you in line. Every person you talk to helps grease the wheel of breaking the ice.   Mentioned in This Episode: Connor’s YouTube page: @ConnorMurphyOfficial Brandon’s YouTube page: @HighLifeWorkOut Austen Summer Austen’s YouTube page: @AustenSummer   Quotes: “You can say anything — just say it in an engaging and interesting way. It’s more about how you say it rather than what you say.”   “I used to shake, just talking to the lunch lady in the cafeteria.”   “When I was your age, I had to actually talk to girls on the street.”