We have no choice, but to win. So therefore we must do things accordingly and know that we are going to go through things in life. The process doesn't feel good but we must go through so really understand what God is doing in our lives. Whether you're healing whether you're just down in your Faith there has to be a change within yourself God can perform any thing he wants to. But he uses our interperson, situations,circumstances,relationships to change us and just like everything things have to be tested in order for them to be proven right. If that makes sense let me say it in a way that is more understandable. God doesn't test us to say oh I want to see if you're going to do this and if you do I'm going to punish you I don't believe he does it that way yet you hear people say well Lord "if you if you just get me out of this situation Lord I go to church every Sunday or Lord I'll do this and I believe sometimes when you come out of that situation he wants to just really see if you're going to do what you said you're going to do.Akso, when we're self-disciplining and we say we're going to change this behavior because we know it's better for us we know it's good for us so we're going to change up to this behavior so then we have this outcome that happens yet we procrastinate and we stop doing the things that we need to do to heal to grow to be better to change and we go back to what we used to know because it's comfortable. So I'm learning that when we're in our comfort zone we feel safe we know what to expect we know how to interpret things. Yeah and the unknown we don't know what to expect and so we're scared, fearful, doubting, hesitant, resistant, disobedient, there's so many things that happen in the unknown but it's in the unknown and the unfamiliar parts where God wants to take you it's going to show you different and we have to be willing to go through we have to be willing to sacrifice if we really want Godto work in us.if we gave him a yes then he's going to do his part and sometimes when you say yes he has to break everything that you know in order to expand your mind in order to expand your territory in order to expand the people that you know to expand your vocabulary to expand your thinking your imagination! To EXPAND YOUUU!! There's some things that we just will never understand that he needs to do TO GET US TO producing the fruit that we need and produce the person the man or the woman he created us to be no offense to ANYONE Who signifies differently.so in that sense we have to go with what God is saying.i love you my queens n kings