Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

By Emily Jordan | Christian Mentor & Relationship CoachSociety & Culture Religion & Spirituality Christianity Education Self-Improvement Relationships

Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags episodes

April 04The Silent Saturday: How to Trust God in the In-Between and Wait for Your Breakthrough
"Are you living in the 'Silent Saturday' of your life? In this episode, we’re exploring The Day In Between—the space between the pain of your past and the beauty of God’s promise. If you are trusting God for a breakthrough but feel like He is silent, this word is for you."

Are you living in the “Silent Saturday” of your life?
That space where the relationship has ended…
the decision has been made…
you’ve walked away from what was breaking you…
But the breakthrough hasn’t come yet.
In this powerful Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode, we step into The Day In Between—the sacred space between the pain of your past and the promises of God.
If you’ve been waiting on God, trusting Him for restoration, clarity, or God-led love—but it feels like He’s silent… this word is for you.
Sis, God is not absent in your waiting.
He is working.
Through Scripture and a spirit-led message, you’ll be reminded that:
The silence is not rejection—it’s preparation
Your waiting season is not wasted—it’s purposeful
God’s promises don’t disappear just because you can’t see them yet
This episode will help you release fear, trust God deeper, and rest in His timing as you prepare for the breakthrough that’s already in motion.
👑 What You’ll Receive in This Episode
Encouragement for the “in-between” season after heartbreak or letting go
Faith-based truth about trusting God when He feels silent
A reminder that God’s promises still stand, even in the waiting
Perspective on how God is working behind the scenes in your life
A powerful prayer to help you surrender, trust, and find peace
🌿 This Episode Is For You If…
You recently left a toxic relationship and feel stuck in the aftermath
You’re waiting on God’s promise but struggling with doubt or fear
You feel like God is silent or distant in this season
You’re tired of survival mode and ready to step into peace and trust
You want to prepare your heart for healthy, God-led love
📖 Scripture in This Episode
Lamentations 3:25–26
“The Lord is good to those whose hope is in Him, to the one who seeks Him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.”

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7 min
April 03The #1 Green Flag to Look For: Finding Godly Love After a Toxic Relationship
Are you wondering what the real green flags are in a relationship after experiencing a toxic relationship, heartbreak, or emotional confusion?
In this powerful sister-to-sister episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re talking about the #1 green flag to look for in a man: a teachable heart.
If you’ve been stuck in cycles of dating emotionally unavailable men, ignoring red flags, or recovering from a toxic relationship, this episode will help you understand what healthy, Godly love actually looks like—and how to recognize it when it shows up.
Emily shares her personal testimony of waiting 10 years for God’s plan, surrendering dating, healing from past relationship patterns, and how God prepared both her and her partner for a Kingdom-aligned relationship. This episode will encourage you to trust God’s timing, release unhealthy attachments, and raise your standards when it comes to love.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
The #1 green flag in a healthy, Godly relationship
How to identify a man with a teachable heart
Signs of emotional maturity vs toxic relationship patterns
Why past heartbreak and red flags refine your discernment
How to trust God after a toxic relationship or breakup
The truth about waiting on God’s timing in dating
Why God prepares both you and your future partner
Who This Episode Is For:
Women healing from toxic relationships or heartbreak
Christian women seeking Godly love and healthy relationships
Anyone struggling with red flags, emotional confusion, or dating patterns
Women ready to stop settling and start choosing aligned, peaceful love
Scriptures Mentioned:
Proverbs 27:17 – Iron sharpens iron
Proverbs 9:9 – A wise man continues to learn
Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trust in the Lord
Romans 8:28 – God works all things for good
Ecclesiastes 3:11 – Everything in its time
Joel 2:25 – Restoration
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – What love looks like
Philippians 1:6 – God completes the work
Final Encouragement:
Sis, you don’t have to settle for confusion, inconsistency, or emotional immaturity. The man God has for you will be willing to grow, learn, and love you well.
Trust His timing.
Trust His plan.
And never lower your standard for anything less than God-led love.

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17 min
April 01Finding Yourself Again After a Toxic Relationship: Healing Your Identity with God
So… you’re out.
But now you’re asking—who am I without it?
Leaving a toxic relationship is one thing.
But finding yourself again afterward? That’s the real journey.
In today’s episode, we’re walking through what it actually looks like to heal your identity with God after heartbreak, confusion, and emotional survival mode.
Because you didn’t just lose a relationship…
You may have lost parts of yourself in the process.
And this episode is your invitation to begin your Holy Return—back to the woman God originally created you to be.
👑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Why toxic relationships distort your identity (and how to reclaim it)
The difference between surviving love vs. living in God-led alignment
How to reconnect with yourself after emotional disconnection
The truth about your identity in Christ after heartbreak
How to stop defining yourself by your past and start becoming who God says you are
✨ Signature Healing Tools Introduced
👑 The 3-Minute Royal Reset Rule
A simple, grounding practice to help you reconnect with your emotions, your truth, and God in real time.
✨ The 5-Second Surrender
A powerful moment of release to break overthinking and realign your identity with God.
🪞 Reflection Question
Who did you become just to be loved…
and who is God calling you back to now?
✍🏽 Assignment
This week, begin rebuilding your identity with intention:
Practice the 3-Minute Royal Reset daily
Use the 5-Second Surrender when you feel overwhelmed
Journal this prompt: “Who I Am Becoming”
📖 Scripture for This Season
Romans 12:2 – Be transformed by the renewing of your mind
2 Corinthians 5:17 – You are a new creation in Christ
💖 Reminder for Your Heart
You are not who you had to be to survive.
You are who God created you to become.
And this season?
This is your Holy Rescue.

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9 min
March 28 The Day After the Breakup: Christian Healing, Heartbreak Recovery & Trusting God One Day at a Time
So, the breakup happened… now you’re left with the silence.
In this tender and deeply relatable Soothe Her Soul Saturday, Emily speaks to the woman navigating the raw emotions of the day after the breakup—when everything feels heavy, quiet, and uncertain.
If you woke up missing someone who is no longer in your life…
If your heart feels broken, confused, or overwhelmed…
If you don’t know what to do next…
This episode is your Royal Pause.
Through Scripture, poetic encouragement, and a heartfelt prayer, you’ll be reminded that you don’t have to have it all figured out today. God is near to you in this moment, walking with you through the pain, and gently beginning the process of healing your heart.
You don’t have to rush your healing.
You don’t have to be strong today.
You just have to take it one step at a time.
Because even in heartbreak… God is still restoring you.
✨ In This Episode You’ll Hear
• What to do the day after a breakup
• Christian encouragement for heartbreak and emotional healing
• How to process the silence after a relationship ends
• Trusting God when your heart feels broken
• Letting yourself feel without rushing the healing process
• A prayer for peace, comfort, and strength
📖 Scripture in This Episode
Psalm 30:5
“Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.”
Psalm 34:18
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
🌿 This Episode Is For You If…
• You are going through a breakup right now
• You’re struggling with the emotions the day after
• You feel lonely, confused, or overwhelmed
• You are healing from a toxic or unhealthy relationship
• You want to trust God but your heart is hurting
• You need gentle encouragement and emotional support
👑 About Soothe Her Soul Saturday
Soothe Her Soul Saturday is your royal pause—a weekly moment of poetic healing, where truth washes over pain, hope blooms again, and God gently lifts the crown you thought you lost.

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6 min
March 27Trying to Control Love After a Toxic Relationship?
Are you trying to control your relationship after a toxic relationship, painful breakup, or deep heartbreak and betrayal?
In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily helps Christian women understand why control shows up after experiencing red flags, emotional trauma, and a broken heart—and how to finally let it go.
Using Ezekiel 7, this episode reveals how control becomes a false sense of safety and how God calls you to release it so you can experience true peace and healing.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why you try to control after a toxic relationship
How to heal from betrayal, heartbreak, and emotional trauma
Why control doesn’t actually create safety
How to let go of fear after a painful breakup
How to stop overthinking and managing your relationship
How to trust again after seeing red flags
How to move from control into peace in a healthy relationship
This episode is for Christian women ready to release fear, heal their broken heart, and step into peaceful, God-led love.
Scripture Reference:
Ezekiel 7
Sis, it’s time to let go of control and finally experience the peace you’ve been praying for. 👑

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13 min
March 25You're Out, Now What? Healing After a Toxic Relationship
Sis… you finally left.
You walked away from the toxic relationship.
You chose yourself.
You chose God.
But now you’re sitting in the quiet wondering…
“Now what?”
In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re starting at the very beginning of your Holy Return—the season after the breakup.
Because the truth is…
Leaving was just the first step.
Healing is where everything changes.
In this Sister-to-Sister real talk, we’re diving into what no one really prepares you for:
The emotional rollercoaster after leaving a toxic relationship
Why peace can feel uncomfortable after chaos
How to stop questioning your decision to leave
The truth about grieving something that wasn’t good for you
Why this season is your wilderness, not your punishment
And most importantly…
We talk about the powerful truth so many women struggle to accept:
👉 You have to put your mask on first.
Just like on an airplane, you cannot pour into others—your children, your responsibilities, your future—if you are running on empty.
This episode will help you understand why healing is not selfish…
it’s necessary.
Sis, this is your foundation.
This is where God begins to rebuild you.
💔 This Episode Is For You If:
You recently left a toxic or unhealthy relationship
You feel confused, emotional, or unsure of what comes next
You’re struggling with guilt, grief, or second-guessing your decision
You feel lost in your identity after the breakup
You’re ready to heal, but don’t know where to start
👑 What You’ll Walk Away With:
Clarity on what’s happening emotionally after the breakup
Permission to slow down and focus on your healing
A deeper understanding of your wilderness season
Encouragement to trust God in the rebuilding process
Peace knowing you are not alone in this journey
📖 Scripture From This Episode
Isaiah 43:19
"See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?"
⚠️ Important Note (Support & Safety)
Sis, if you are currently in a domestic abuse situation, please know this:
You do not have to navigate this alone.
Before making any major decisions, it is so important to seek professional support and create a safe exit plan.
Please reach out to a trusted support system, licensed professional, or a local/national domestic violence resource.
💜 National Domestic Violence Hotline (U.S.)
Call or text: 1-800-799-7233
Or chat online: https://www.thehotline.org/
Your safety matters. Your life matters. You are worthy of protection and support.
🎧 What’s Next in This Series
In the next episode, we’re going deeper into:
👉 How to actually begin healing after a toxic relationship
(practical + spiritual steps to rebuild your life)

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13 min
March 21 When Letting Go Hurts: Healing from Toxic Relationships & Trusting God’s Plan for Your Future
Letting go isn’t easy… even when you know it’s necessary.
In this deeply personal Soothe Her Soul Saturday, Emily shares her story of walking away from a toxic relationship, releasing the life she fought so hard for, and trusting God in the unknown.
If you’ve ever had to let go of a relationship, a version of yourself, or the life you thought you were going to have, this episode will meet you right where you are—with truth, grace, and hope.
Through Scripture, storytelling, and heartfelt encouragement, you’ll be reminded that letting go is not losing—it’s making room for what God is doing next.
This episode is your Royal Pause—a moment to breathe, grieve, release, and trust that God’s plan is still unfolding… even when it doesn’t look how you expected.
✨ In This Episode You’ll Hear
• How to let go of a toxic relationship with faith
• Healing after walking away from a relationship or marriage
• Letting go of the life you thought you’d have
• Trusting God when your plans fall apart
• Emotional healing and surrendering control
• Encouragement for starting over with God
📖 Scripture in This Episode
Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
Isaiah 43:19
“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?”
🌿 This Episode Is For You If…
• You are letting go of a toxic or unhealthy relationship
• You recently walked away from a marriage or long-term relationship
• You are grieving the life you thought you would have
• You are in a season of starting over
• You are learning to trust God with your future
• You need hope in the middle of uncertainty
👑 About Soothe Her Soul Saturday
Soothe Her Soul Saturday is your royal pause—a weekly moment of poetic healing, where truth washes over pain, hope blooms again, and God gently lifts the crown you thought you lost.

This is your Holy Rescue. 🤍
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7 min
March 20Letting Go After Breakup, Heartbreak & Betrayal
Are you trying to move on after a toxic relationship, but still feel stuck in the pain of heartbreak, betrayal, and emotional confusion?
In this powerful Sister-to-Sister episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily speaks directly to the woman navigating the aftermath of a painful breakup—the one who knows the red flags now… but is still carrying the weight of a broken heart.
If you’ve ever felt like you left the relationship… but the relationship didn’t fully leave you—this episode is for you.
Through a biblical lens inspired by Ezekiel 5, Emily walks you through what it truly means to release your past, let go of survival mode, and step into emotional and spiritual freedom.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why leaving a toxic relationship doesn’t instantly heal heartbreak
How betrayal and gaslighting can affect your identity and emotions
What it really means to let go after a painful breakup
Why healing can feel exposing—but is actually freeing
How to release the past without losing the lessons
How to stop carrying the weight of a broken heart into a new season
How to recognize and move forward from past red flags
This episode will help you understand that healing isn’t just about moving on—it’s about letting go of who you had to become to survive.
Scripture Reference:
Ezekiel 5:1–3
Sis, you don’t have to carry the pain of your past anymore.
You can release the heartbreak, learn from the red flags, and step into the healed, whole woman God is calling you to be. 👑

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10 min
March 18Triggered in a Healthy Relationship? Do This!
Triggered in a healthy relationship? You’re not alone—and you’re not broken.
In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily speaks directly to Christian women healing from toxic relationships, gaslighting, emotional abuse, and heartbreak.
If you’ve ever felt triggered, anxious, or emotionally overwhelmed—even with a good, Godly man—this episode will help you understand why.
You’ll learn:
Why triggers happen after toxic relationships
How gaslighting rewires your brain and affects your perception
How to regulate your emotions in a healthy relationship
The importance of stillness in emotional and spiritual healing
Practical tools to stop emotional spiraling and find peace
How to trust yourself again after betrayal
Biblical truth for healing your heart and renewing your mind
This episode is part of your Royal Transformation—helping you move from survival mode into healing, wholeness, and God-led love.
Key Scriptures:
Psalm 46:10
Psalm 147:3
Isaiah 30:15
Perfect for:
Christian women healing from heartbreak, overcoming toxic relationships, learning emotional regulation, dating a good guy after trauma, and growing in faith-based healing.

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13 min
March 14 Healing From the One Who Broke You: Christian Encouragement for Women Recovering from Heartbreak
Sometimes the deepest heartbreak comes from the person you trusted the most.
In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday, Emily speaks directly to the woman who is healing from the one who broke her heart. If you’ve ever loved someone who left you confused, wounded, or questioning your worth, this episode is a gentle reminder that God sees your pain—and He is restoring your heart.
Through Scripture, poetic encouragement, and prayer, this episode offers hope for women who are walking through emotional healing after a toxic relationship, breakup, or painful love story.
God is close to the brokenhearted, and the same heart that was once shattered can be rebuilt stronger, wiser, and rooted in His love.
This episode is your Royal Pause—a moment to breathe, release the past, and allow God to begin healing the places that still feel tender.
Because the one who broke you does not get the final chapter of your story.
God does.
✨ In This Episode You’ll Hear
• Encouragement for healing after a painful breakup
• Biblical truth about God restoring a broken heart
• Hope for women recovering from toxic or unhealthy relationships
• Emotional and spiritual healing after betrayal or heartbreak
• A prayer for peace, restoration, and renewed confidence
• A reminder that your story—and your heart—are not ruined
📖 Scripture in This Episode
Psalm 147:3
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
🌿 This Episode Is For You If…
• You are healing from a breakup or toxic relationship
• Someone you loved deeply hurt you
• You are trying to rebuild your confidence after heartbreak
• You are learning to trust God again with your love story
• You need encouragement while recovering emotionally and spiritually
👑 About Soothe Her Soul Saturday
Soothe Her Soul Saturday is your royal pause—a weekly moment of poetic healing, where truth washes over pain, hope blooms again, and God gently lifts the crown you thought you lost.

This is your Holy Rescue. 🤍
I'll see you next Thursday at 5:00 AM.
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About Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

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So... you're fresh out of a breakup, sitting in heartbreak, healing from a broken heart after a toxic relationship, or finally seeing the red flags you missed along the way.

Or maybe you've finally found a good man, but you can't stop crashing out because safe love feels scary.

If you're asking yourself, "Where do I go from here?"

Sis... welcome to your Holy Rescue.

Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian podcast for women healing after heartbreak who are ready to stop the bleeding, surrender the past, draw closer to God, renew their minds through His truth, and step into Holy Alignment so they can recognize, receive, and build Holy Love... this time, with God.

Hi, I'm Emily Jordan. I have mud on my boots, scars on my heart, and I know what it feels like to be in the trenches.

I've stood where you're standing - the heartbreak, the confusion, the overthinking, the disappointment, and the moments you wonder if you will ever feel like yourself again.

But I have also experienced what happens when you finally surrender control, give God the pen, and lay everything at the altar so He can do the healing only He can do.

Because here's the truth: You cannot hold the promise while you’re still bleeding from the past.

Together, we'll heal what heartbreak tried to destroy, evict the squatters in our minds, strengthen our relationship with God, learn to hear His voice, sharpen our discernment, break unhealthy cycles, and date from healing—not our wounds.

Are you ready for your Holy Exhale?

Let's heal.

Let's rise.

And when God says it's time...

Let's love.

Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy.

Your Holy Rescue begins now. 👑🤍

New episodes drop every Thursday at 5 AM.

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🔐 Early access to upcoming releases, special announcements, and new drops inside The Vault. A curated collection of creations, art prints, books, resources, and meaningful pieces from this journey.

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⭐️ Help Another Woman Find Her Holy Rescue

If this episode spoke to your heart today, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your words help the algorithm push this message out to the exact woman who needs this rescue right now. 🤍

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Thank you for walking this journey with me, sis. Keep your eyes on Jesus! 👑

🤍 Connect with Emily
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Listen to Emily's Song

Want a little more Emily Jordan?

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