Girl, Grow Up

Indecisive? Overwhelmed? Unsettled?

Fully surrendering might just be one of the hardest things you will ever have to do. Especially when you totally have zero control over a situation. You’re left feeling in a panic, powerless, and at a loss.

Instead of being a total maniac, here’s how you can surrender with grace.

And, it’s okay. This is a judgment-free zone. I get pretty crazy when things are out of my control too! On today’s episode, I’m walking you through the five steps you will need to go through to let go with grace.

 

Episode Highlights

The transitions I’m going through

Surrendering goals you haven’t met by the end of the year

The changes I’m making in my business and the break I’m taking

What to do when you feel overwhelmed, indecisive, and unsettled

Why I feel like I’m restarting again

What I’m doing right now that is bringing me so much joy (shout out to Salty Donut!)

Being conscious of the toxic people around you and the content you are consuming online

Sharing the people who positively impact me online

My tip for you and being guilty of not being good at!

How making a decision is like my tattoo analogy

Choosing your soundboards with wisdom

Those who are close to you know your weaknesses better than you do

What I’m personally surrendering in this season and my biggest fear around it

My one trick to surrendering

My final advice as we wrap up 2018

 

Be sure to head over to Instagram and let me know what your biggest take away was.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/surrendergracefully

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

If you haven’t heard of the Enneagram personality test, I’m sorry to tell you but, you might just be living under a rock. Not to worry, that’s what today’s episode is all about so get ready to learn A LOT about yourself!

Today’s special guest is, New York-based illustrator and graphic designer, Rukmini Poddar. She’s the artist behind 100 Days of The Enneagram.

On this episode, she’s sharing how she went from 5K Instagram followers to 25k and how this powerful project skyrocketed her influence online. We also dive into the Enneagram and how consistency has helped her build a solid tribe.

 

HIGHLIGHT

 

How she became an illustrator

Building discipline & consistency through 100 Day projects

Developing a skill and being known for something through consistency

Why creatives can be responsible and committed too

The power of rituals/habits/consistency

Why Rukmini chose the Enneagram over other personality tests

What the Enneagram can teach you about yourself

Understanding your deeply rooted motivations through the Enneagram

Her experience illustrating pieces for each Enneagram type

Tips on collaborating on projects to grow your brand

Going from 5K Instagram follower to 25K

Why you need to prepare your audience before you sell

How Rukmini’s didn’t have overnight success and how it took years of ard work

Being real and authentic online by showing up as you

How you can use the Enneagram to stay healthy and show up in a healthy way online

Her top advice for 3w2’s

 

Be sure to head over to Instagram and let me know what your biggest take away was.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/enneagramconsistency

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

Isn’t it the freaking worst when a tampon starts to leak?

Don’t even get me started on pads that feel like adult diapers!

Now, can you imagine living in a third world country where you don’t even have the luxury of a tampon or pad?

On this episode, I chat with Betsy Drach who is the founder of Dot, a modern menstrual cup company, all about her one-for-one business model (similar to brands like TOMS or Warby Parker) where for every Dot cup purchased, one will be given to a girl in need. She also shares the journey she’s gone through to build her business will being a first-time mom.

By the way, Dot is less than a year old and these mighty cups are already in stores like FreePeople and been featured in magazines like Darling!

 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

How she came up with the idea for Dot and the perks of using a Dot cup instead of tampons

Betsy educates us on how to use a menstrual cup and how to use it

Her top tips when it comes to starting a 1-for-1 business model

What caused Betsy to put he dream on hold for 4 years and her advice when you’re in a season of waiting

What finally pushed her to launch the business she’d been dreaming about for years

Launching a business with a newborn and how Betsy deals with mommy guilt

How to find manufacturers for your product based business

When a closed-door becomes a blessing

Finding the right partnerships

Top two tips for women who want to start a product based business 

 

Be sure to head over to Instagram and let me know what your biggest take away was.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/dot-cup

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

Managing your marriage as an entrepreneur is no easy task.

Just like parents love their little humans, you probably see your business as your baby. Add in trying to keep up with your spouse, it’s a lot to balance.

I’m sharing part-two of a conversation I had with my husband Steve on cultivating a healthy marriage as we both chase our career goals.

Disclaimer: we definitely aren’t perfect and don’t always get things right.

 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

What to do when your partner doesn’t agree with or understand your dreams

Why Steve didn’t support me when I wanted to start my own coaching/consulting business

How data and research helps us stay accountable and supportive of each other's goals

Why and how to fight for your dreams

How we compliment each other as a couple

Our favorite business and personal development books and what you can learn from each one

 

Be sure to head over to Instagram and let me know what your biggest take away was.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/managingmarriage-p2

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

Managing your marriage as an entrepreneur is no easy task.

Like a parent, your business is like your baby. Add in trying to keep up with your spouse, it’s a lot to balance. Today, I’m sharing part-one of a conversation I had with my husband Steve on cultivating a healthy marriage as we both chase our career goals.

Disclaimer: we definitely aren’t perfect and don’t always get things right.

 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

Our personality and Enneagram types.

Steve’s English upbringing and Beth childhood in Midwestern Ohio.

Our expectations going into marriage.

How Disney princess movies gave Beth false expectations.

The struggles we went through at the beginning of our marriage due to dating long distance.

How we balance time with family and us time.

Our struggle to remember or commit to new family ideas.

What we do to stop talking about work all the time.

Steve’s red flag idea.

How we’ve learned to blend our very different cultures.

 

Be sure to head over to Instagram and let me know what your biggest take away was.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/managingmarriage-p1

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

If your engagement is low on social media, you’re probably missing this…

Telling your story can be the most powerful tool you have as an online influencer.

On episode #16, I chatting with my new friends Mike LeMieux all about using your story to build a connection with your audience on social media. Over the last several years, Mike has been a pioneer and leader in the social media and influencer marketing space. Mike has worked with thousands of influencers that have created tens of thousands of branded posts for hundreds of the world’s top brands.

On this episode, Mike shares:

 

How he went from grocery store manager to social media marketer.

Overcome comparison as an online influencer.

The one thing that matters more than your photo on Instagram.

Five steps to follow when it comes to sharing your personal story online.

The one question to ask yourself if you’re afraid of getting vulnerable  on social media.

Mike and his wife’s heartbreaking story of how they lost their children and how they’re using their story to bring hope to others.

Best etiquette when it comes to collaborations between brands and influencers.

Tips on working well with your spouse.

When to take the perfect photos for social media.

Why you should promise a lot and overdeliver

 

Be sure to head over to Instagram and let me know what your biggest take away was.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/storytelling

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

Most of us want to start a business to achieve some form of freedom.Freedom to call the shots.Freedom to make your own hours.Freedom to earn BIG.Freedom to do work that matters.On this week's new podcast episode, I’m chatting with my business BFF Linda Bello all about building a business around freedom. Linda is a New York born and raised Online Business Mentor who helps entrepreneurs create more freedom and income in their online businesses doing the work they love. 

Thanks to her online mentoring business she was able to double her 9-5 income in just two months and now not only does she get to do what she loves - she gets to focus on what matters most - family.She's been featured by the Huff Post and has helped 100's of entrepreneurs fall in love with their work with dozens who have left their 9-5s.On this episode, Linda shares:

What to do if you’re struggling to get started

Why freedom matters to Linda

4 must-have tools that give you more freedom in your business

The 2 ways that help Linda protect her time

The one question to ask yourself so you don’t live with regret

2 things to try when you need to get motivated

Be sure to head over to Instagram and let me know what your biggest take away was.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/freedombasedbiz

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

Can your business use a branding makeover?The internet is flooded with tacky fonts and awful color combinations. %FIRSTNAME%, I'd hate for your ideal client to overlook your business because your brand doesn't appeal to her. If you're ready to level up your branding, you'll want to tune into today's podcast episode. I interview Brand Stylist & Web Designer, Christina Faye, all about branding. She's spilling 3 strategies you can implement right now to improve your branding! 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/improve-branding

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

Are you a shopping spree overspender or super stingy with your cash? I'm personally guilty of both! Whatever your story is around money, if you're ready to have a healthier relationship with money, you'll want to tune into today's podcast episode.I sat down to chat with my sweet friend, and Success Coach, Janelle Mason who is a total wiz on all things money mindset! She shares:

How a heart attack at 28 years of age changed her career path and life forever.

Tips on making a career change or transition within your business.

Why you can no longer ignore your bank account.

How she shifted her poor farmer girl mentality to a successful business owner.

Why entrepreneurs need to have a better relationship with money.

Top three tips to develop and maintain a healthy money mindset.

Why 80% of your success boils down to your thoughts.

Money mindset is such an important topic for entrepreneurs. If you're struggling in this area, be sure to tune in.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/blog/moneymindset

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper

Is your dad the only person commenting/liking your social media posts? Mine used to too. To be fair, he still does but so do many others. It’s the worst feeling to hear crickets when you’ve worked really hard to create content that you know is valuable to your tribe.So, how the heck do you get their attention?Well, you’re probably missing these key ingredients. On today’s episode, I'm sharing three things you can start implementing today to grow a tribe and produce content worth engaging with.

 

SHOWNOTES: https://www.steadfastsociety.co/engagingcontent

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/bethgharper