It is very easy to point out the flaws in others especially in a relationship. It is often the ones that love us that hurt us the most. We point fingers at who's wrong all the time but how often do you reflect on your own actions. While this is difficult, it is necessary. You can't escape yourself. In fact that is the one thing you take with you to every relationship.....YOU. There is no getting around it. You have to deal with you. We all have toxic traits and behaviors. In order to reach the best version of ourselves ladies, we most hold ourselves to a higher standard. Sometimes we simply have to leave situations that bring out the worse in us.