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Girl, Stop Comparing Yourself! Here’s How to Turn Envy Into Motivation


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If you’ve been scrolling and suddenly feel like everyone is thriving except you… this episode is for you.

Today, we’re breaking down comparison: why your brain does it, and how to turn it into fuel instead of a confidence killer. Because comparison isn’t the problem. The story you tell yourself after comparing is what keeps you stuck.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • Why upward comparison makes you feel behind (yep, psychology explains it)
  • The shift from “Why not me?” to “How can I?” (the mindset that actually moves you forward)
  • How to use envy as information, not evidence that you’re losing
  • A 4-step framework to turn jealousy into growth

✨ Comparison doesn’t have to crush you. It can show you what’s possible.

💕 Get In Girl Challenge For This Week:

  • Pick ONE person you’ve been comparing yourself to.
  • Write down ONE thing you actually admire.
  • Turn that into ONE micro-goal you’ll complete THIS week.
  • Tag me @by.nneoma, I’ll be cheering you on.

💌 Stay connected: bio.site/by.nneoma

📸 Instagram/TikTok: @by.nneoma

📩 Inquiries: [email protected]

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Get In GirlBy Nneoma Chiakwelu