Welcome to the inaugural episode of "Girl, Yes He Did"! Marnie and Brooke—two authors with a passion for reality dating shows and hot takes—dive into the spicy premiere of Bachelor in Paradise, Season 10 (2025).
From first impressions to instant crushes, questionable date choices, and tropical drama (now in Costa Rica AND with AC, praise be!), the hosts take listeners through every memorable moment, analyze cast personalities, and even toss around some armchair psychology—Brooke *is* a therapist, after all!
- **Who are our hosts?**
Marnie plays the single gal sidekick, while Brooke brings both single and therapeutic perspectives.
- **First Impressions Roundup:**
- Spencer: Matcha boy, golden retriever vibes, maybe “a lot” but sweet.
- Alex(e): Canadian, llama + butt plug infamous entrance, not too serious at first?
- Lexi: Super serious, looking for marriage, takes no nonsense.
- Jeremy: Classic “dude bro,” there to have fun—and maybe admire himself a little too much.
- Jonathan: Self-proclaimed “medium king” (debatable), shaves his legs, confidence talk.
- Bailey: At first, seemed high maintenance but proved likable and heartfelt.
- Hakeem: High-energy, cat lover, but maybe friend-zoned for a reason?
- Jess: Falls hard and fast, bubbly, immediate spark with Spencer.
- Kyle: Jockstrap legend, feels like an outsider from an older season.
- Zoe: Tall, doesn’t shy away from drama—goes after what she wants.
- Ricky: “Puerto Rican poppy,” on the hunt for “intentionality.”
- Brian: Total Jersey Shore vibes, “the whole package” per his mom.
- Kat: Previously engaged, admits to drama, has sought therapy due to online hate.
- Justin: Third time's the charm—maybe, but still a little woe-is-me.
- Dale: “Man handsome,” famous for shutting down an entire Bachelorette season, leaves everyone swooning.
- Sam: Motorcycle entrance, mysterious but didn’t make it past the first cuts.
- **Noteworthy Hot Takes:**
- The impact of cyberbullying on reality contestants (trigger warning: mentions of Love Island suicides and mental health).
- The “trauma” talk: when is it valid vulnerability, and when is it buzzword overkill?
- The “intentionality” drinking game—just kidding, but seriously, how many times can you say intentional in one episode?
- “Nice guys finish last”—debated! Do healthy girls always pick the nice guy? (Hosts say: “When they’re healthy, yes!”)
- **Major Drama & LOLs:**
- New setting, new animals: Goodbye crabs, hello iguanas!
- The “vanilla” insult. Is it really an insult? Listeners, take the poll!
- The rivalry and slight meltdown during the couple “like/dislike” games.
- Secondhand embarrassment for contestants unable to keep cool in front of “man-handsome” Dale.
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**Bonus:**
The hosts also run another podcast, *Must Read Murder*—just be patient with the naming blunders!
**Next Episode Teaser:**
Will the upcoming Bachelor in Paradise episodes let the “Goldens” (Golden Bachelor/Bachelorette contestants) mix with the younger crowd? Drama is brewing—stay tuned to find out if “stay on your side” rules still apply!
**Thanks for tuning in!**
Share your predictions, vote in our vanilla-insult poll, and tell us who you’re rooting for.
Catch you next week with more reality show breakdowns and dating wisdom.
Music by Bryce Moore
