GIRL you are magic

GIRL you are magic

By Favour EbedeEducationSelf-Improvement
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GIRL you are magic episodes

  • 26. How Smart Women Deal With Haters & Bullies

    if you ain’t got no motion, you're not gonna haters or bullies. Everyone’s a girl’s girl until they feel threatened by you.In this video, we’re talking about bullies, haters, jealous women, exclusion, rumors, workplace bullying, fake friends, and what happens when people decide they don’t like you, but still can’t leave you alone.I’m breaking down the psychology behind bullying, why some people can only be nice to you when they feel superior to you, and why you should NEVER internalize the way someone treats you.Sometimes the rejection, isolation, gossip and hate you experience can actually become the very thing that pushes you into your next level. Your haters can become your elevators. We’ll also talk about:* How to understand the psychology of a bully* Why some women become hostile when they feel threatened by you* How to stop people-pleasing when someone treats you badly* Why isolation can sometimes be a blessing* How to become “bully proof”* How to transmute hate and negative attention* Dealing with workplace bullies and mean girls* Why you shouldn’t chase people who exclude you* Finding genuinely good people instead* Keeping your self-worth intact when people try to tear you down* And why sometimes God will elevate you right in front of the people who wanted to see you failAt the end of the day, people might hate you, misunderstand you, gossip about you or try to humble you but that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.Sometimes the very thing they tried to use against you becomes the thing that makes you stronger.🎥 Referenced video: How to Stop Caring What People Thinkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D4DevaAjqSo&t=4s

    WATCH THE VIDEOS I REFERENCED:Girl shares her experience with bullying and how it led to self-isolationhttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8jKobF8/

    Some women are bully-proof because they've faced darker parts of themselveshttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8FshXKf/How to transmute hate directed at youhttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8Y24FNE/Some women can only be nice to you when they feel better than youhttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN86kxnAC/Mean girls in high school got their karmahttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN86fJkjb/https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8rURfEJ/Toxic momshttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN86C9Xkc/They don't like you but they won't leave you alonehttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN86nL6Gc/Friend groups who isolate you for your beautyhttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN86WFn1v/What a blessing it is to be excluded and left outhttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8MFmVG3/Cardi B and hatershttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8MCAxyU/Hater women can be just as strategic as men when getting close to youhttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8MX9Tb5/If you've ever been bullied, excluded, underestimated, talked about or made to feel like you were “too much,” this one's for you. 🖤Subscribe for more conversations about feminine energy, self-worth, confidence, healing, reinvention and becoming the woman you were always meant to be.#bullying #haters #feminineenergy #selfworth #confidence #healing #girlpower #selfdevelopmentSUBSCRIBE ♡INSTAGRAM ♡ _missfavourMY BLOG ♡ selfhealjourney.comPODCAST ♡ GIRL you are magic ✨YOUTUBE ♡ selfhealjourneyEMAIL FOR BUSINESS INQ.♡ [email protected]#bullying #haters #feminineenergy #selfworth #confidence #healing #girlpower #selfdevelopment

    18 min
  • 22. Stop dating men who think being romantic is corny

    Stop waiting for permission to love and pour into yourself 

    Value yourself, appreciate yourself and get yourself the damn flowers. Zero effort equals zero access we running a strict program in 2026. Stop dating men who think being romantic is corny, date yourself instead.

    You’re worth more than the bare minimum. 🌹



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    20 min
  • 25. Let GO & DETACH Affirmations to STOP OBSESSING AND RUMINATING OVER THEM

    Have you been feeling like your energy is being siphoned or you’ve been destiny swapped? Or maybe you just want to stop obsessing and ruminating over them. Repeating these affirmations everyday will help you protect your peace, release karmic soul ties and call back your energy from energy vampires.
    #detachment #lettinggo #cordcutting #soulties #guidedmeditation
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    6 min
  • 24. 5 ways to stay unbothered, detached & not give a F***!!

    Learning how to stay unbothered, detached, and in control of your emotions is one of the most powerful skills you can master.In this video, I talk about the 7 unconventional ways to stop caring about things that don’t deserve your energy.By the end of it, you’ll learn:


    ✔ How to stop reacting to everything


    ✔ How to detach from toxic people and situations


    ✔ How to stay calm when others try to provoke you


    ✔ Why emotional control gives you real power


    Master these habits and you’ll notice something powerful:
You become harder to manipulate, harder to stress, and harder to shake.Oh and also the villain 😈


    Watch until the end to learn the final strategy, it might change how you deal with people forever.


    #womenempowerment #advice #unbothered #detachment #peoplepleaser #confidence #stoicmindset


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    20 min
  • 23. How To Get Your SPARK Back After LOSING YOURSELF 🧚🏻✨

    If you’ve thought to yourself, “i don’t feel like myself lately”, “i want my confidence back”, “why do i feel mid all the time”, “I miss the old me” then watch this video, I'll be guiding you on how to get their spark back. #healingjourney #confidence #advice #girltalk #womenempowerment
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    14 min
  • 20. Sleep AFFIRMATIONS To Wake up PRETTIER, RICHER, HOTTER 💕💸✨

    Listen to this self concept affirmations daily to help manifest your dream life. Your self-perception sets the tone for your entire life. Feel confident, empowered, and deserving of all the good things coming your way. This mindset will transform your world! #selfconcept #sleepaffirmations #nighttimeaffirmations #selflove #confidenceboost #selfhelp #PositiveSelfTalk #womenempowerment #GlowUpJourney #SelfWorth #ManifestYourBest


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    13 min
  • 19. You know he's bad for you but you want him anyways

    if you ever asked yourself why do i get attached so easily or you are trying to figure out how to stop getting attached so fast during the talking stage, then this video is for you. You'll finally understand why some guys are easy to block, and while others have you hopelessly entangled with them. The video will explain you to why someone who wasn't your type in the first place ends up being your addiction, a bad habit that you cant seem to drop. It all boils down to one psychological factor, and understanding how it works will bring awareness, and will help you detach from this person.


    The monkey experiment

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=126&v=axrywDP9Ii0&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2Fsearch%3Fq%3Dmonkey%2Bdopamine%2Bexperiment%2BRobert%26sca_esv%3Dd6706571e7d76b47%26rlz%3D1C5CHFA_enGB1092GB1092%26sxsrf%3DANbL&source_ve_path=Mjg2NjY


    YOU MAY ALSO LIKE

    https://selfhealjourney.com/2025/04/11/how-to-emotionally-detach/

    https://selfhealjourney.com/2026/01/12/manifesting/

    Ebook - https://selfhealjourney.com/ebook

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    6 min
  • 18. Decenter men now, no more being the “cool girl” or the pick me.

    Decentering men will actually save your life, watch this is you are tired of making men the main plot of your life. Being the cool girl or the overly accommodating pick me won’t make a man love or respect you more. Performing for male approval only distances you from your true self.Reject the need to compete for attention, and instead focus on being authentic and whole within yourself. Detach from the pick me mentality to level up today!YOU MAY ALSO LIKEhttps://selfhealjourney.com/2025/01/21/decentering-men/https://selfhealjourney.com/2025/04/11/how-to-emotionally-detach/Ebook - https://selfhealjourney.com/ebookSUBSCRIBE ♡INSTAGRAM ♡  _missfavourMY BLOG ♡ selfhealjourney.comYOUTUBE ♡ selfhealjourneyEMAIL FOR BUSINESS INQ.♡ [email protected]

    16 min
  • EP 17 - If They Can Control Your Emotions They Have Power Over You

    In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into Detachment 101 — how to truly master your emotions so you stop letting your triggers control you.


    If you’ve ever felt stuck in unhealthy emotional attachments, overthinking, or waiting around for validation, this conversation is your wake-up call.


    Learning to emotionally detach is not about becoming cold or disconnected — it’s about choosing yourself and your peace over constant emotional chaos.


    I’ll guide you through key steps to observe your emotions without absorbing them, self-soothe like a high-value woman, and reclaim your personal power.


    Plus, if you're ready to take this journey even deeper, my ebook Feminine Magnetism is your next step. It’s packed with mindset shifts, energy practices, and daily tools to help you embody that irresistible, detached feminine energy.


    Get it now on the blog selfhealjourney.com and get ready to stop begging, hoping, and waiting — and start choosing yourself every single day.


    You can also join a community of like-minded women on the blog and YouTube channel, where you’ll find even more inspiration, empowerment — and get to know me on a deeper level.



    15 min

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GIRL you are magic is a self help show dedicated to helping women cultivate the confidence needed to become the woman of their dreams. Hosted by blogger of selfhealjourney, Favour Ebede, each episode…