LOOK THEIR ASSES UP! Don't be so eager to date someone you just met especially if they are showing signs of instability. Most people think that you have to pay to find out stuff about a person's past. Look on the county web sites. These sites store public information about people, including their arrest record, civil suits, ticket history, marriage, and divorce history. Now Maria is charged with attempted murder for running over her ex's mother because he had sex with her and dissed her afterwards. She is serving 9 years while he has to live with the guilt of his mother suffering from broken ribs, broken hip, and a host of other ailments.