In this episode of Soul Talk with Life Coach Shiffon Miller, we explore what it means to stay grounded, confident, and secure when faced with people who avoid, withdraw, or can’t meet you emotionally where you are. Through my own journey of having a big heart sometimes labeled as “too much” I share how I learned to stop overexplaining, stop overaccommodating, and start honoring my worth. This is for anyone who’s ever been left wondering if they’re too much or not enough. You are neither you are exactly who God created you to be.

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In this heartfelt and reflective episode of Give Me Your Perspective, I share my personal journey of becoming stepping boldly into a new chapter of life with grace, wisdom, and discernment. This is for anyone who’s experienced heartbreak, disappointment, or transition, and is ready to release what no longer serves them, embrace the lessons of the past, and choose themselves unapologetically while trusting God’s perfect timing.

This is Soul Talk a space where healing meets honesty, and growth starts from within. Life Coach Shafon Miller delivers weekly, spirit-led reflections for the soul that’s tired, healing, hopeful, or all three at once. Whether you’re navigating transitions, protecting your peace, or reclaiming your worth, you’ll find encouragement here. No filters, no fluff just real talk with heart, purpose, and grace. Pull up a seat. Your soul showed up for a reason.

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In this episode, I open my heart and speak from a place of deep reflection—because I’ve come to understand that I don’t want the “perfect” love that looks good on the outside but lacks depth on the inside. I want a love that’s perfect for me—one that feels safe, emotionally mature, spiritually aligned, and built on truth.

This isn’t about flawless people or fairy-tale relationships. It’s about the kind of love that allows both people to be human—flawed but committed, imperfect but intentional. I talk about what it means to desire a sacred connection where both partners are capable of communicating through the hard times, standing in vulnerability, and choosing each other with consistency—not out of convenience, but out of alignment.

I also share parts of my personal journey—how letting go of past connections, even ones filled with love, was necessary for growth. How sometimes we confuse chemistry for calling. And how the waiting season isn’t a punishment, but a preparation. What may feel like silence is often God’s way of clearing the path so the right kind of love can step in.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned, “Is it me?” or felt like they were “too much” for the wrong people. You are not too much—you were just offering your love to people who weren’t equipped to receive it.

Love doesn’t need to be broadcasted to be real. It needs to be felt, honored, and nurtured in quiet spaces where trust is built and authenticity is welcomed. If you’re in a season of becoming, of healing, or simply waiting for the kind of connection that sees you and stays—this episode is for you.

There’s a difference between a relationship and a purpose partnership. In this episode, I’m sharing why I want my purpose partner to seek God before they ever seek me. If you’re not going to the One who wrote my story, how do you know you’re meant to be in it? Let’s talk spiritual alignment, prayerful pursuit, and why a God-centered connection hits different and lasts longer.

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In this episode of Give Me Your Perspective, I’m sharing a personal and powerful realization: the importance of setting healthy boundaries, protecting your energy, and learning how to receive love — not just give it.

For too long, I found myself over-pouring into others without leaving anything for myself. Today, I’m choosing a new path: one rooted in self-respect, balance, and emotional wisdom.

Join me as I talk about why it’s okay — and necessary — to be “selfishly protective” of your peace, how to recognize when you’re giving too much, and how to welcome relationships that pour back into you.

We’ll also reflect on Proverbs 4:23 and how guarding your heart is an act of love toward yourself and your purpose.

This conversation is a reminder: choosing yourself is not selfish — it’s sacred.

Tune in for some real, heartfelt encouragement.

In this heartfelt episode of Give Me Your Perspective, Shiffon speaks to the soul of anyone walking through a season of waiting, uncertainty, or quiet. Whether you’re praying for someone you love, standing in faith for your next step, or learning to love from a distance—this episode is for you.

Shiffon shares a powerful affirmation, a grounding Bible verse, and words of encouragement to remind you that even when God is silent, He is still moving. You’ll be reminded to keep praying, keep loving, and keep walking in faith—because the silence isn’t a sign of absence, it’s a signal that something divine is being prepared just for you.

In today’s episode of Give Me Your Perspective, we’re diving deep into something we don’t talk about enough—how unhealed pain can lead us to mistreat the very people who were sent to help us heal. Whether it’s abandonment, rejection, or trauma, sometimes we push away the ones who see us, love us, and nurture us because we’re scared of being hurt again. But in doing so, we hurt them. Let’s talk about how to stop sabotaging healthy connections and start showing up in love, even when it’s uncomfortable. This one’s for the overthinkers, the guarded hearts, and anyone who’s ever been misunderstood—or done the misunderstanding.

In this heartfelt episode of Forgive Me Your Perspective, I share my personal journey from an anxious attachment style to embracing true security and inner peace. Opening up about times filled with uncertainty and self-doubt, I recount the challenges of constantly seeking validation and the transformative process of learning to let go of control. Through self-reflection, therapy, prayer, and the comforting promise of Scripture, particularly Philippians 4:6-7, I discovered that my worth and security are not defined by my anxious thoughts but are rooted in God’s unwavering love.

This episode is dedicated to anyone who has ever struggled with insecurity and anxious attachment. Whether you’re on the verge of healing or still navigating the hard days, let my story serve as a reminder that transformation is possible when you surrender your fears to God. Discover the practical strategies I used and the powerful lessons I learned on the way to becoming secure in my identity. Tune in, be encouraged, and remember: you are not alone on this journey.

Shiffon M. Miller M.A

Life Empowerment Coach

In this heartfelt episode of Give Me Your Perspective, I get real about the struggles we face when life feels overwhelming and uncertain. It’s okay to not be okay—but it’s not okay to give up. I talk about the importance of having mustard seed faith even when things don’t make sense, and how trusting God during the storm leads to breakthrough. Sometimes the struggle is just the setup for the blessing on the other side. Join me as I share encouragement to keep pressing forward, because God didn’t bring you this far to leave you. You are seen. You are loved. And you are covered—even when it doesn’t feel like it.