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CBQ: How do you change someone's attitude?

Changing someone's attitude is not about force. It is about awareness, sequence, and humility. In this episode, Juan and Courtney explore why you can not skip emotional stages, why progress is often smaller than you want, and why the first attitude you must check is your own.

Drawing from Tribal Leadership and Tattoos on the Heart, they unpack the five workplace "t-shirts" people wear—and why trying to yank someone from "my life sucks" to "everything is great" rarely works.

HIGHLIGHTS

• "You can not force someone to wear your t-shirt." – Juan
• "Progress is progress, even if it annoys you." – Juan
• "Sometimes blunt honesty is what actually gets through." – Courtney
• "If I am at 'I'm great, you suck,' I am part of the problem." – Juan
• "Gratitude shifts the shirt you are wearing." – Juan

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