Podcast Notes: "God Forgives, Should We?" – Teachable Woman

Reverends Michele Owes and Diana P. Cherry

Introduction:

In this episode of the Teachable Woman Podcast, Reverends Michele Owes and Diana P. Cherry dive into the powerful topic of forgiveness. They explore not only God's forgiveness but also the importance of forgiving others and ourselves. Drawing on scripture and personal experiences, they encourage listeners to reflect on the profound impact of forgiveness in their lives.

1. God’s Faithfulness and Forgiveness

Reverend Owes recalls the podcast’s last episode about God’s faithfulness and how we can see God's hand in our successes and answered prayers. Today, the focus shifts to forgiveness—an essential part of the Christian walk. God forgives us, and we are called to forgive others, but there is also a crucial need to forgive ourselves.

2. The Process of Seeking Forgiveness

In 2 Chronicles 7:14, the Bible emphasizes the need for humility and prayer when seeking forgiveness from God. Reverend Owes explains that God calls for us to approach Him with a broken and contrite heart. It’s not about just asking for forgiveness; it’s about understanding what caused us to sin and allowing God to cleanse us of that root cause, so we don’t repeat our mistakes.

3. The Cleansing Power of Forgiveness

While forgiveness takes care of the act of sin, true healing comes when God cleanses us from the cause of sin. Reverend Cherry adds that if we don’t address the root causes, we might find ourselves in a repetitive cycle of sin. This cleansing is key to breaking free from the patterns of wrongdoing.

4. The Importance of Forgiving Others

Both reverends share that forgiveness is not optional for Christians—it’s a commandment. Jesus taught in Matthew 6 that our forgiveness from God is tied to our willingness to forgive others. Without forgiveness, our relationship with God is blocked. Reverend Cherry highlights the dangers of harboring unforgiveness, which only weighs down our hearts and prevents us from having peace.

5. The Role of Forgiveness in Our Country and Relationships

Rev. Cherry reflects on how forgiveness, particularly within the Black community, often appears more readily available, even in the face of tragic loss. She contrasts this with the unforgiving attitudes seen in other communities. This unforgiveness, she explains, doesn't hurt the person being forgiven but harms the one holding on to the bitterness.

6. Forgiveness and Trust: A Key Distinction

While forgiveness is essential, it doesn’t mean we have to trust everyone again. Reverend Cherry stresses that forgiveness is about freeing ourselves from the weight of bitterness, while trust is something that takes time to rebuild. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean putting yourself back in a vulnerable position, especially if the person has betrayed your trust.

7. The Ultimate Example of Forgiveness: Jesus on the Cross

The most powerful example of forgiveness is found in Jesus' words while hanging on the cross: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Rev. Owes and Rev. Cherry reflect on how, despite the immense suffering, Jesus chose forgiveness. His sacrifice is the ultimate model for how we should forgive others, no matter the offense.

Conclusion:

The podcast wraps up with an important reminder: forgiveness is crucial for healing—both spiritually and emotionally. God is ready to forgive us when we humbly seek His mercy, and we are called to extend that same grace to others. Unforgiveness keeps us bound, but forgiveness frees us. The reverends encourage listeners to pray for the strength to forgive, knowing that God’s mercies are new every morning. They also remind everyone to keep them in prayer as they continue their journey of faith and ministry.