Why Chasing Success is Blind Without This Mindset Shift: Unlock the True Power of Your Journey. Discover why fixating on goals derails dreams and embrace the journey as the true prize for resilience & fulfillment. A life-changing perspective.

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Show Notes: God Jots – Episode 219: Life Is Not Just the Prize: Why the Path Matters

In this soul-searching episode, Ender Bowen dives deep into the true meaning of success and what it really means to "make it." Rather than rushing toward the finish line, Ender invites us to slow down and recognize the hidden treasures found within the journey itself. Drawing from personal experiences, pop culture (think Frodo and the Lord of the Rings), and moments of self-reflection, he explores how our path—complete with setbacks, small victories, and unexpected detours—shapes us into the people we're meant to become.

Expect to laugh, reflect, and maybe even reconsider your own ambitions as Ender poses important questions: Are you missing out on the real prize by focusing only on the end goal? How can you embrace the present moments, learn from stumbles, and walk more intentionally on the path set out for you?

Topics Covered:

• Why the journey matters as much as the destination

• How ambition can sometimes blind us to life’s real lessons

• The value of setbacks, resilience, and camaraderie

• Pop culture wisdom from Lord of the Rings

• Practical tips for realigning when you’ve lost sight of your path

Discover how creating a sacred space helps you tune out distractions, open your heart, and connect more deeply with God in prayer.

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Show Notes – God Jots: Episode 218 – The Surprising Reason You Can't Hear God And How To Fix It

Hey everyone, it’s Ender Bowen here! In this episode, I dive into one of the most common and frustrating challenges I hear from people everywhere: why does it sometimes feel impossible to hear God’s voice? Spoiler—it’s not just you, and I’m right there with you, even if it sometimes looks like I’ve got this all figured out.

I get real about my own experiences: yes, there are moments when talking with God feels natural, but there are just as many times when I’m shouting into the void, hoping for even a whisper in return. In this episode, I explore why that sense of silence happens, and reveal the often surprising reason behind it—the lack of a sacred, intentional space to connect.

I break down what a “sacred space” really means (hint: it doesn’t have to be a stained-glass chapel or a perfect Instagram-ready nook) and share practical, down-to-earth ideas for carving out a spot that’s just for you and God—whether that’s a quiet corner, a park bench, or even the closet floor.

Here’s what you’ll get in this episode:

• Honest stories about my own spiritual ups and downs (and a little playful marital banter for good measure!)

• Why finding a sacred space is a game-changer for actually hearing God

• Creative suggestions to help you claim your own special spot—no matter where you live or how much space you have

• How removing distractions can help you tune into what God might be saying—and what to expect when the answer isn’t what you hoped for

Discover how Compassionate Curiosity helps us move beyond assumptions, understand others’ choices, and build deeper connections.

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Show Notes – God Jots Ep. 217: Understanding Hearts Through Compassionate Curiosity

Host Ender Bowen delves into the power of “compassionate curiosity”—the act of pausing our judgments to truly understand the stories and motivations behind others’ choices, especially when they baffle us. Using relatable examples, humor, and heartfelt insight, Ender explores how our assumptions often cloud our ability to connect and how shifting our mindset can open the door to empathy and even friendship across deep divides.

Learn practical steps to move from frustration and misunderstanding toward genuine connection, including how to ask better questions and reflect on your own motivations.

Key Discussion Points:

• Why we make assumptions about others’ choices

• The importance of seeing people as complex and human—not just representatives of ideology

• Four actionable steps to practice compassionate curiosity

• How understanding can loosen fear and create space for connection

Discover Jesus’ sense of humor and joy. Learn how His absurd, playful life reveals God’s Love and invites us to laugh, live, and find freedom.

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Show Notes – God Jots: Episode 216 – Jesus and Humor: Finding Joy In The Absurdity of His Life

In this thought-provoking (and laugh-inducing) episode, host Ender Bowen explores the often-overlooked humor and joyful absurdity in the life of Jesus. Stepping away from heavy-handed seriousness, Ender delves into how Jesus used unexpected, sometimes even comical actions—like walking on water, feeding thousands with just a picnic, or healing with a bit of spit—to challenge the status quo and reveal the wildly freeing nature of God’s love.

Drawing from personal reflection and biblical storytelling, Ender invites listeners to consider: Are we missing something essential when we strip away the joy and wit from our faith? What if laughter—not just solemnity—was one of the greatest acts of faith?

Tune in for:

• Insightful (and funny) examples of Jesus’ subversive and playful side

• A case for embracing humor and lightness as a path to deeper compassion and freedom

• Reflections on how taking life a little less seriously could change your outlook

Your past frustrations may echo louder than you think. Discover how old wounds shape today’s reactions, and how Grace can break the cycle.

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Show Notes: Episode 215 – How Past Frustrations Still Shape The Present

In this honest and vulnerable episode of God Jots, host Ender Bowen dives deep into how our past fears and frustrations can show up in the present and influence the way we treat ourselves and the people we love. Ender shares a personal story about a difficult moment with his daughter, exploring how unresolved childhood trauma and old patterns can cause us to react unconsciously—even against our best intentions.

He discusses the importance of recognizing these triggers, cultivating self-compassion, and breaking the cycle of hurt by being gentler with ourselves. Through real-life reflection, Ender encourages listeners to pause, breathe, and approach challenges with empathy, both at home and within ourselves.

Key Topics:

• How past frustrations shape our present behavior

• Recognizing and breaking destructive emotional patterns

• The power of self-compassion and empathy

• Real tools for healing and forgiveness

God’s Kingdom begins with surrender. Discover the unexpected invitation of faith and what it means to release what you hold most dear.

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Show Notes – God Jots Episode 214: The Unexpected Invitation To God's Kingdom And Its Meaning

In this heartfelt episode, host Ender Bowen invites listeners to reflect on the story of Jesus riding into Jerusalem on a donkey—an ordinary animal, surrendered by its owner for an extraordinary purpose. Through humor, transparency, and personal anecdotes, Ender explores what it means for us today when God asks us to give up something valuable.

This episode dives into:

• The deeper meaning behind surrendering what matters most

• What it looks like to join God’s bigger story, even when it feels risky

• The daily opportunities we have to participate in God's kingdom

• Practical questions to help you identify your own “donkey”—that thing you hold tightly to

Ender challenges us to move from reluctance to participation and reminds us that the Lord’s invitations aren’t losses, but opportunities to witness the Kingdom at work through our willingness to let go.

Learn how God’s Grace invites us to see others fully—beyond mistakes and triumphs—with Love, Compassion, and redemption.

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Show Notes – God Jots Ep. 213: How To See Others With Grace And Embrace Their Full Story

Host Ender Bowen invites you on a heartfelt journey exploring how we view others—not just as collections of their best moments or worst mistakes, but as whole, beautifully complicated people. Ender shares a touching story of his grandmother’s scrapbook, filled with every small newspaper clipping from his childhood, and uses it as a metaphor for the way God lovingly holds every piece of our story.

This episode challenges us to see people the way God does: not defined by a single headline or soundbite, but through the holistic, grace-filled lens that acknowledges both the victories and the mess-ups. Ender also discusses the upcoming release of his book on forgiveness, and encourages listeners to reflect: how would you feel if someone had a scrapbook of your life, clippings and all? And how might that change the way you see others?

Conditional friendships may look like loyalty, but they’re control. Learn why walking away is the most Compassionate act of freedom.

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Show Notes: God Jots – Episode 212: Why Conditional Friendships Will Never Bring You Peace

In this episode of God Jots, Ender dives deep into the tricky subject of conditional friendships—the kind where you’re told, “Defriend me if you disagree with me.” Ender unpacks why these ultimatums aren’t about values or morals but about control, and why genuine friendships should go beyond surface-level agreements.

You’ll hear:

• Why disagreements should not be deal breakers in real friendships

• How to set compassionate boundaries without letting yourself be disrespected

• The freedom that comes from walking away from relationships built on conformity

• Why stepping away isn’t cruel—it’s an act of self-compassion

• Encouragement to value yourself and seek out friendships built on real love, respect, and connection

Ender also shares personal anecdotes, comedic moments, and invites you to join the growing community of aspiring compassionists to share your own experiences.

Even your worst enemy is more than their faults. Discover why wishing harm keeps you stuck, and how Compassion leads to freedom.

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Show Notes: Episode 211 – Why You Shouldn't Wish Harm On Your Worst Enemy

In this thought-provoking episode of God Jots, Ender Bowen dives deep into the idea of what it truly means to have a "worst enemy." With his signature blend of humor, honesty, and compassion, Ender challenges the notion of seeing others solely through the lens of our personal hurt and encourages a shift towards empathy and understanding.

He explores the complexities behind labeling someone as a villain in our story and asks us to consider that everyone—even those who have hurt us—are loved and multidimensional beings. Ender shares his personal journey of moving beyond bitterness, emphasizing the freedom found in compassion, prayer, and seeing others as God sees them.

Tune in as Ender invites you to reflect: Who is your worst enemy, truly? Could you see them differently? And how might embracing compassion over resentment transform your own heart?

Key Themes:

• Rethinking our perception of enemies

• The spiritual and personal cost of holding onto bitterness

• Choosing compassion and prayerful reflection

• Recognizing the multidimensional lives of others

• Mirroring God’s love and grace—even when it’s difficult

We all try to fix others, but only God transforms hearts. Discover why His Love—not our control—is the real key to healing relationships.

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Show Notes – God Jots: Episode 210 "Why Trying to Fix Others Fails And What God Does Instead"

Host Ender Bowen dives deep into the longing many of us feel to "fix" the broken people in our lives—from friends and loved ones to strangers who cross our path. Where does this desire come from? Through heart, humor, and a dash of vulnerability, Ender explores how this urge might reflect something far greater than our own intentions—a divine echo of how God loves, heals, and transforms us, even when we seem unfixable.

This episode gently challenges the idea that we’re responsible for changing others, instead inviting us to create space for grace, healthy boundaries, and compassion as God does the real work in their hearts. Ender tackles the dangers of staying in toxic situations, unpacks the difference between helping and saving, and offers wisdom on how we can become instruments of love and patience while letting go of the savior complex.