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https://www.uncommen.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Nov-7.mp3
Becoming the Man God Calls You to Be
Scripture:“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” – 1 Corinthians 16:13–14
The Quiet Drift Away
Every man has drawn a line in the sand—vowing never to cross it. Maybe it’s a moral boundary, a promise to your wife, or a commitment to purity. Yet one day, you look up and realize you’re miles past that line. Not because of one big decision, but because of many small ones. That’s how compromise works—it erodes your convictions inch by inch.
That’s why developing godly characteristics isn’t a one-time choice. It’s a daily surrender. The world around us constantly tugs at our attention, our habits, and our hearts. But the measure of a biblical man isn’t how close he can stand to the edge—it’s how firmly he stands in truth.
What You Take In Shapes Who You Become
The podcast highlights a powerful truth: what you feed your mind will shape your soul. Whether it’s the shows you stream, the music you listen to, or the conversations you keep—your input determines your output.
Jesus warned that “out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45). If your daily intake is filled with negativity, lust, or anger, those things will eventually find their way into your thoughts and behavior.
A godly man practices discernment. He understands that godly characteristics like purity, self-control, and humility grow in the soil of consistent spiritual input. Fill your life with Scripture, worship, and fellowship—and watch how your perspective shifts.
The Danger of Isolation
Another truth from the discussion: isolation is dangerous. We often justify our solitude under the banner of “me time,” but too much time alone—especially away from our family or church community—creates space for temptation to thrive.
Idle time becomes a playground for the enemy. The Bible says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). A man who wants to cultivate godly characteristics must be rooted in community.
Surround yourself with other believers who won’t flatter you but challenge you. Men who will remind you of the line you drew in the sand—and call you back when you drift past it.
The Power of Influence
In the podcast, the story of a friend who picked up cursing from coworkers shows how subtle influence can be. No one sets out to mirror the world—but without intentional boundaries, the world’s habits become ours.
Paul warns us in 1 Corinthians 15:33, “Do not be deceived: bad company corrupts good morals.” What you tolerate today may define you tomorrow.
Having godly characteristics means taking ownership of your environment. If your inner circle doesn’t build your faith, it will slowly break it. You can love the lost and still guard your heart. Jesus dined with sinners but never compromised His holiness. You can, too.
Spiritual Habits That Strengthen Godly Characteristics
The foundation of godliness is not perfection but pursuit. Here are five daily habits that cultivate godly characteristics and protect your walk with Christ:
Stay in the Word.The Bible isn’t just a moral guide—it’s your lifeline. A man of God can’t grow apart from Scripture.
Pray with honesty.Talk to God as your Father, not as a checklist. Confess your weakness and ask for His strength.
Guard your eyes and ears.Every image and word you take in either draws you closer to holiness or further from it.
Serve your family first.Leadership begins at home. A husband who serves his wife and children reflects Christ’s humility.
Stay accountable.Don’t fight sin in the dark. Share your struggles with a trusted brother who will pray and speak truth over you.
These disciplines don’t make you perfect, but they build spiritual muscle. Over time, they develop resilience—the mark of a mature, godly man.
You’re Not Alone
When temptation feels overwhelming, remember this: you are never truly alone. The Holy Spirit lives within you, guiding, convicting, and comforting. In Francis Chan’s The Forgotten God, he reminds us that the Spirit is often overlooked in our daily lives. But He is the constant presence of God—your counselor, your strength, your reminder of truth.
True godly characteristics are Spirit-led, not self-manufactured. You can’t fake godliness. It must flow from time spent with God.
Godly Characteristics in Marriage
How does all this connect to being a godly husband? Everything you expose yourself to—what you watch, say, and think—eventually flows into your marriage.
If you cultivate godly habits, your wife will experience the fruit of that in patience, kindness, and love. But if you feed your mind with the world’s values, it will bleed into your tone, your priorities, and your presence.
Scripture commands husbands to “love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” (Ephesians 5:25). That’s not about dominance—it’s about sacrifice. Godly characteristics like humility, self-control, and compassion equip you to lead with love, not authority.
Honest Self-Reflection
Take a moment to ask yourself:
What line in the sand have I crossed recently?
Who or what is shaping my thoughts the most right now?
Do my habits reflect Christ or culture?
A godly man doesn’t ignore conviction—he acts on it. If you’ve drifted, confess and return. Grace isn’t just for salvation; it’s for sanctification too.
Challenge: Guard the Line
Every day, the world invites you to step over your line just one inch more. But men of God recognize the cost of compromise.
This week, identify one area where you’ve let your guard down—your media habits, your friend circle, or your time management—and take one concrete step to reclaim it. Ask a brother in Christ to keep you accountable.
The road to developing godly characteristics isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. The more you walk with Jesus, the more His likeness becomes visible in you.
Closing Prayer
Lord, thank You for calling us to live with godly characteristics that reflect Your heart. Strengthen us to guard what we see, say, and do. Help us to love our families well, lead with humility, and stand firm against temptation. May Your Spirit guide our thoughts and shape our character to honor You daily. Amen.
Be encouraged. How will you live out Godly Characteristics this week? Be uncommon.
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Becoming the Man God Calls You to Be
Scripture:“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” – 1 Corinthians 16:13–14
The Quiet Drift Away
Every man has drawn a line in the sand—vowing never to cross it. Maybe it’s a moral boundary, a promise to your wife, or a commitment to purity. Yet one day, you look up and realize you’re miles past that line. Not because of one big decision, but because of many small ones. That’s how compromise works—it erodes your convictions inch by inch.
That’s why developing godly characteristics isn’t a one-time choice. It’s a daily surrender. The world around us constantly tugs at our attention, our habits, and our hearts. But the measure of a biblical man isn’t how close he can stand to the edge—it’s how firmly he stands in truth.
What You Take In Shapes Who You Become
The podcast highlights a powerful truth: what you feed your mind will shape your soul. Whether it’s the shows you stream, the music you listen to, or the conversations you keep—your input determines your output.
Jesus warned that “out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45). If your daily intake is filled with negativity, lust, or anger, those things will eventually find their way into your thoughts and behavior.
A godly man practices discernment. He understands that godly characteristics like purity, self-control, and humility grow in the soil of consistent spiritual input. Fill your life with Scripture, worship, and fellowship—and watch how your perspective shifts.
The Danger of Isolation
Another truth from the discussion: isolation is dangerous. We often justify our solitude under the banner of “me time,” but too much time alone—especially away from our family or church community—creates space for temptation to thrive.
Idle time becomes a playground for the enemy. The Bible says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). A man who wants to cultivate godly characteristics must be rooted in community.
Surround yourself with other believers who won’t flatter you but challenge you. Men who will remind you of the line you drew in the sand—and call you back when you drift past it.
The Power of Influence
In the podcast, the story of a friend who picked up cursing from coworkers shows how subtle influence can be. No one sets out to mirror the world—but without intentional boundaries, the world’s habits become ours.
Paul warns us in 1 Corinthians 15:33, “Do not be deceived: bad company corrupts good morals.” What you tolerate today may define you tomorrow.
Having godly characteristics means taking ownership of your environment. If your inner circle doesn’t build your faith, it will slowly break it. You can love the lost and still guard your heart. Jesus dined with sinners but never compromised His holiness. You can, too.
Spiritual Habits That Strengthen Godly Characteristics
The foundation of godliness is not perfection but pursuit. Here are five daily habits that cultivate godly characteristics and protect your walk with Christ:
Stay in the Word.The Bible isn’t just a moral guide—it’s your lifeline. A man of God can’t grow apart from Scripture.
Pray with honesty.Talk to God as your Father, not as a checklist. Confess your weakness and ask for His strength.
Guard your eyes and ears.Every image and word you take in either draws you closer to holiness or further from it.
Serve your family first.Leadership begins at home. A husband who serves his wife and children reflects Christ’s humility.
Stay accountable.Don’t fight sin in the dark. Share your struggles with a trusted brother who will pray and speak truth over you.
These disciplines don’t make you perfect, but they build spiritual muscle. Over time, they develop resilience—the mark of a mature, godly man.
You’re Not Alone
When temptation feels overwhelming, remember this: you are never truly alone. The Holy Spirit lives within you, guiding, convicting, and comforting. In Francis Chan’s The Forgotten God, he reminds us that the Spirit is often overlooked in our daily lives. But He is the constant presence of God—your counselor, your strength, your reminder of truth.
True godly characteristics are Spirit-led, not self-manufactured. You can’t fake godliness. It must flow from time spent with God.
Godly Characteristics in Marriage
How does all this connect to being a godly husband? Everything you expose yourself to—what you watch, say, and think—eventually flows into your marriage.
If you cultivate godly habits, your wife will experience the fruit of that in patience, kindness, and love. But if you feed your mind with the world’s values, it will bleed into your tone, your priorities, and your presence.
Scripture commands husbands to “love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” (Ephesians 5:25). That’s not about dominance—it’s about sacrifice. Godly characteristics like humility, self-control, and compassion equip you to lead with love, not authority.
Honest Self-Reflection
Take a moment to ask yourself:
What line in the sand have I crossed recently?
Who or what is shaping my thoughts the most right now?
Do my habits reflect Christ or culture?
A godly man doesn’t ignore conviction—he acts on it. If you’ve drifted, confess and return. Grace isn’t just for salvation; it’s for sanctification too.
Challenge: Guard the Line
Every day, the world invites you to step over your line just one inch more. But men of God recognize the cost of compromise.
This week, identify one area where you’ve let your guard down—your media habits, your friend circle, or your time management—and take one concrete step to reclaim it. Ask a brother in Christ to keep you accountable.
The road to developing godly characteristics isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. The more you walk with Jesus, the more His likeness becomes visible in you.
Closing Prayer
Lord, thank You for calling us to live with godly characteristics that reflect Your heart. Strengthen us to guard what we see, say, and do. Help us to love our families well, lead with humility, and stand firm against temptation. May Your Spirit guide our thoughts and shape our character to honor You daily. Amen.
Be encouraged. How will you live out Godly Characteristics this week? Be uncommon.
Check out our other resources in our library.