pChristian marriage advice for men often starts with learning to listen instead of rushing to fix everything. Discover a biblical perspective on emotional connection and leadership in marriage./p

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pDiscover how relatable Bible stories show us that Scripture is full of real people with real struggles—just like us. Find hope, humor, and grace in God's Word./p

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pFailure is something we all experience—whether in our work, our relationships, or our spiritual walk. But how we respond to failure determines whether it becomes a stumbling block or a stepping stone. In today’s culture, where success is often measured by status, wealth, or perfection, the fear of failure can become paralyzing./p

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pIf you think a great date night requires fancy restaurants, expensive babysitters, and a perfectly coordinated plan, think again. The best moments in marriage often happen during the simplest ones. That’s why at home date night ideas are growing in popularity—not just because they’re budget-friendly, but because they prioritize what really matters: connection./p

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pEver catch yourself tallying up who’s done more around the house—more chores, more errands, more child wrangling? It’s a subtle, almost instinctual drift into competition: “Who’s more tired? Who’s doing more?” But marriage isn’t about keeping score; it’s about carrying each other’s burdens, even when you’re both running on empty./p

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pIt’s a simple but piercing question: Have you stayed curious about your wife—who she is right now? Your wife has changed. Her fears, dreams, struggles, even her personality may look different than they did on your wedding day. That’s normal. You’ve both changed. Life has a way of shaping us through seasons of health scares, job losses, raising kids, or simply growing older./p

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p Embracing the Challenge of Becoming Dad In this special Father’s Day edition of the Man-to-Man Podcast, we dive into the realities, challenges, and blessings that come with Becoming Dad. Whether you’re preparing to become a father, adjusting to a new baby, or navigating the later seasons of parenting, this episode offers insight, humor, and heartfelt wisdom. Through honest conversation and personal experience, we discuss the shift in priorities, spiritual responsibility, and the everyday decisions that shape us as fathers. The Wake-Up Call of Becoming Dad When a child enters your life, everything changes. From sleep schedules to finances, fatherhood reshapes what matters most—and often, the biggest shift is internal. Reflection:Many men underestimate how much maturity is required until it’s suddenly demanded. Think back: are you preparing now for the man you’ll need to be later? Or are you hoping to flip a switch when the time comes? Lesson:Fatherhood isn’t something you grow into by accident. It takes intentionality. Seek wisdom from other dads, dig into resources on parenting, and grow spiritually before the pressure hits. As one guest put it, “Maturity helps when chaos erupts”—and it always will. Challenge:Reach out to a seasoned father and ask what surprised him […]/p

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p You hustle. You provide. You protect. Day in and day out, you show up because that’s what good dads do. But Dad, You Need Rest Too. But here’s the hard truth—too many dads are running on empty. And somewhere along the way, we’ve bought the lie that slowing down is weakness. It’s not. Rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a lifeline. Dad, You Need Rest Too. Without it, you risk leading your family from a place of depletion, not strength. And if you’re constantly running on fumes, you’re not just wearing yourself out. You’re leading your family from a place of depletion, not strength. Busy Isn’t Holy In our culture, busyness has become a badge of honor. “How’s life?” we ask. “Busy,” we answer—with pride, not concern. But scripture paints a different picture—one that starts with this truth: Dad, You Need Rest Too. “It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for He gives to His beloved sleep.” – Psalm 127:2 Even Jesus—Son of God, Savior of the world—took time to rest. He slipped away to pray. He napped in the boat during a storm. He modeled the rhythm […]/p

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p Scripture:“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”– James 1:19 When She Talks, Are You Really Listening? You can be in the same room, hear every word your wife says, and still miss what she’s actually telling you. Many husbands don’t struggle with hearing—they struggle with listening. The Listening Husband knows the difference. The difference? One takes sound in. The other takes the heart in. Fixing isn’t always the answer. In fact, sometimes it’s the problem. When your wife opens up, she’s not handing you a project—she’s inviting you into her world. And if your first instinct is to solve rather than sit with her, you may be missing the moment entirely. Proverbs 18:13 puts it bluntly: “To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.” Listening is more than a skill—it’s an act of love. Presence Over Performance Too often, we think nodding while scrolling counts as engagement. It doesn’t. Real listening begins with presence—something The Listening Husband practices every day. That means eyes up, phone down, and attention undivided. Distraction says, “You’re optional.” Presence says, “You’re essential.” Jesus models this perfectly. When Mary and Martha were grieving, He didn’t rush in with […]/p

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p What do you do when life is good? Scripture:“When you have eaten and are satisfied, praise the Lord your God… Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God.”– Deuteronomy 8:10–11 Don’t Waste the Blessing After the cross came the resurrection. After sorrow came joy. Just as Easter reminds us that God meets us in the valley, it also assures us He walks with us on the mountaintop. But here’s the real challenge: how we live in the good days matters just as much as how we endure the hard ones. Thriving in the Good Days starts with recognizing that peace and comfort are not pauses in your faith journey—they’re part of your preparation. When life is comfortable—money’s steady, relationships are peaceful, and you’re healthy—it’s easy to get lulled into a spiritual nap. We stop praying with urgency. We stop seeking God with hunger. And before long, we stop acknowledging that He’s the one who brought us to this season in the first place. Thriving in the Good Days means remembering who led you here—and continuing to walk closely with Him, even when things are going well. Israel did this after entering the Promised Land. They forgot […]/p

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