19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
When we are wronged, we are not going to ‘get even’. To avenge is never our option. Either the hurt comes from a believer or from an unbeliever. What is the reason behind?
We should refuse to take revenge because God is much better at it than we are. God says to us, "Trust me to handle revenge and justice for all who harm you instead of seeking it yourself." In a sense, Paul implies that taking our own revenge would dilute God's opportunity to avenge for us in His great anger against those who harm us.
A desire for justice for ourselves and those we care about is not wrong by itself. Paul simply reminds us to trust God's timing and power to deliver justice as He sees fit. Paul quotes Moses’ words from Deut 32:35 to declare that God has always His intention to take vengeance against those who wrong others.
Moreover, we are called to an active, positive, and generous engagement with those who harm us. This is counter culture. Our natural tendency is to ignore the harmful person, is it not? It’s supernatural act to do good to the person who hurt us. Does this mean that we are going to tolerate abuse? Definitely not!
Retreating from violence or avoiding a physical abuser is not being discouraged here, at all. If we can take steps to avoid future injury, that is the right and wise thing to do. God is not commanding us to welcome any kind of abuse.
Paul quoted Prov 25:21-22, “If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink, 22 for you will heap burning coals on his head, and the LORD will reward you.” This appears to work towards our disadvantage by relentlessly kind in seeing and meeting the enemy’s basic needs.
What is the wisdom of God? As we do this, two things could happen. Firstly we reflect God's own mercy to us who were once His enemies (Rom 5:10). Secondly, we do that we do not deserve to be treated poorly and that we are stronger than those who harm us.
By so doing you will heap burning coals on his head. This has an allusion to a known custom. To carry a pan of burning coals on one's head as a sign of repentance. Kindness and forgiveness to those who abuse us, ideally, will make them ashamed of themselves, and hopefully bring them to repent. The strongest, most powerful response to persecution and hatred is to love your enemies.
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