Why go deeper with Rev. Michael J. Crumpler? Because he says, regarding his own experience, ”My coming out, it got worse before it got better.” Start with ”I was a good boy,” and add getting caught up in the freedom of being out, proud, and not having to lie anymore. Michael found himself in a dangerous dance with Crystal Meth and sex parties. He spent 2 1/2 years of disconnect with his own life until he was given the opportunity to go home and live with his sister. ”Before she lost her life, she saved mine.”